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11 Classic Madonna Moments From Her ‘Rebel Heart Tour’

  • October 29, 2015 - 1:26am

Be still my gay heart.

 

Though Madonna’s latest spectacle, Rebel Heart Tour, spotlights her 13th studio album of the same name, the concert queen still reached into her back pocket and pulled out a swoon-worthy collection of classics. Ones she hasn’t touched in years – and an exclusive addition just for her fellow Detroiters.

 

“Hometown girl is back!” Madonna proudly declared on Oct. 1 in Detroit.

 

And, oh yes, she was. The icon's stop at Joe Louis Arena could only be described as the stuff of dreams, a delicious fusion of old and new, writhing nuns and blissed-out fun. Rebel Heart was all sweet… not sticky. And nostalgic.

Gays, we have so much to be thankful for.

 

‘True Blue’

 

“Baby, I love you,” Madonna gushed, dipping into her back catalog for this adorable 1985 relic. Stripped of its pop sheen, “True Blue” became a finger-snappin’, hand-clappin’ campfire sing-along, with Madonna plucking away at a ukulele. Yes, baby, we love you too.

 

‘Deeper and Deeper’

 

In 2004, for the Re-Invention World Tour, she took her great disco rave from 1992’s Erotica to the cabaret, quieting it down for a lounge-style slowie. Not this time. For Rebel Heart, “Deeper and Deeper” retained its original pulse, dizzying the crowd of queers with its dance spins as Madge and her crew worked the heart-capped catwalk with a voguish hustle.

 

‘Burning Up’

 

Flame bursts boomed from behind Madonna on a towering backdrop, but the diva herself was the one bringing the heat. As she punched her electric guitar, transforming this 1983 fan favorite into a rockin’ rush, someone probably should’ve called 911.

 

‘Like a Virgin’

Bitch, she’s Madonna. Owning the stage like a boss during a solo hip-hop take on “Like a Virgin,” Madonna bounced her booty during a ravishing display of agelessness – proof that Pilates and full-powered Beyoncé-type fans are a girl’s best friends.

 

‘La Isla Bonita’

 

Toro, toro! No, there wasn’t a bull, and this wasn’t “Take a Bow” (sigh). Hand to pelvis, Madonna moved to the Spanish vibes of “La Isla Bonita,” showing off her slow mo gyrations amidst her festively-attired stage gang who came together for a performance that was muy bien.

 

‘Dress You Up’ Medley

 

If Madonna wants to spoil us, who are we to argue? Not only did “Dress You Up” (in full!) make the cut, but the diva went deep into the ’80s for “Into the Groove” and “Lucky Star,” essentially giving life to all basking in her presence. #Humanitarian

 

‘Who’s that Girl’

 

Dusting off the title song from her 1987 film, Who’s that Girl, Madonna gave this ditty a guitar-guided makeover – nearly 30 years after last performing it on tour! Despite the fact that Madonna was actually there, donning gypsy attire and taking our collective breath away, it was hard to tell if this was real life.

 

‘Frozen’

 

This used to be her playground, which Madonna enthused during her hometown stop, proclaiming that, “Detroit made me who I am today.” And she didn’t stop there. She swapped set-list staple "Ghost Town" for “Frozen,” her stunning Ray of Light-era trip to the dark side, stripped to merely the rawness of acoustic guitar and a vocal that left everyone, well, you guessed it: frozen.

 

‘Material Girl’

 

Raise your hand if you wet yourself during this one. Beyond the obvious fact that “Material Girl” sits atop Madonna’s smoldering hit heap, the way she folded it into Rebel Heart – simple, chic, Great Gatsby-inspired – was pure blast-from-the-past pleasure.

 

‘Love Don’t Live Here Anymore’

 

After shoving a faux lover down a spiral staircase at the end of “Heartbreak City,” Madonna caused a ruckus when she launched into her showstopping ballad “Love Don’t Live Here Anymore,” from 1984’s Like a Virgin. It was just a snippet, a tease – because, you know, she’s Madonna.

‘Holiday’

 

It didn’t take this, the encore, to know that Madonna had let her hair down again, ditching brooding theatrics for the essence of early Madonna: frilly fun. Rebel Heart Tour was a two-hour-plus celebration of Madonna’s career, and it all came to a boisterous, confetti-filled head with “Holiday.”

 

Q&A with Mondo Guerra

  • October 29, 2015 - 1:06am

Mondo Guerra is a fashion designer who first came to fame in 2010 as a contestant on the eighth season of the reality television show Project Runway. Although he didn’t win, Guerra was a fan favorite, even before he disclosed his HIV-positive status on the show. At that moment he also took on the role of HIV/AIDS activist.

Guerra went through a whirlwind of media attention. Since then, his celebrity profile has certainly increased. He won the debut season of Project Runway All Stars and became a mentor on Under the Gunn (a spinoff series named after Project Runway host Tim Gunn). His designs include apparel, accessories and jewelry.

Guerra has also found a way to connect his design career with his advocacy. In addition to being a spokesperson for “I Design,” an HIV/AIDS media campaign sponsored by Merck, Guerra is a spokesperson for “Dining Out for Life,” an annual fundraiser sponsored by Subaru, in which restaurants donate proceeds to local HIV/AIDS groups.

Five years after publicly disclosing he has HIV, Guerra explains how his life has changed and shares his goals for the future.

What prompted you to get tested for the virus in 2001 at the age of 22?

When I was younger, I believed, like every young person, that I was invincible. I was not making the best decisions. I could feel there was something different about me. So I got tested, and my test came back positive.  

 

After the diagnosis, I was devastated. I grew up in a Latino household and community, and there was never any discussion about HIV/AIDS, so it was definitely scary to me. I did not know how to deal with it.

When I was newly diagnosed, I was very ashamed and afraid. I didn’t really seek any support. I hate to say this, but in a lot of ways, looking back now, being raised Roman Catholic, I felt like it was some kind of punishment.

I stayed silent about my positive status even up to when I was in the hospital with pneumonia over Christmas in 2009. With my family and friends visiting me, I asked my doctors not to disclose any information.

They were walking into a room with a bed where I was hooked up to this and that, and in my heart and mind I was dying of AIDS. I still didn’t talk about it. I hit rock bottom, and I knew I had to start taking better care of myself.

I started taking medical advice and the proper treatments that I needed, and I got better very quickly. I had goals. For such a long time before I was in the hospital, HIV was defining who I was as a person and also as a creative.

The creative part of me was dying, so I had no reason to live. This creativity, the outlets where I was able to express myself, I used them to escape, a way to get through the day. This emotional and spiritual support is an important part of keeping me going.

Tell us about your decision to disclose on Project Runway in 2010.

My revelation on Project Runway was life-changing. It came from fear and turned into a huge sense of responsibility. I walked out on that runway in such a mood, but two hours later I was like, “What are people going to say?”

I was completely scared, so it wasn’t until four days before the episode aired that I told my parents. My parents still live in the home that I grew up in. At the dinner table, we have assigned seating that has never changed.

We had dinner. I knew in my heart – which was beating a million miles an hour – that I just had to come out with it, so I told my parents. “I know” was the first thing my mom told me, that motherly instinct I have always heard about. We talked some more, then my mom said, “I am proud of you.”

That helped me to talk about HIV/AIDS more. I get very emotional about it still because I felt the love that came from the table that night, and it hurts me still because I didn’t trust them and that made me feel bad.

Speaking of your family, your mom and aunts inspired some of your eyewear.

My eyewear collection is inspired by family and friends. There is a whole set of eyewear that is named after my mom and her sisters. It is my way to give back to them, because they have been so supportive and inspirational. It is the least I can do.

I’ve had the great opportunity to have a reality show competition pivot me into some visibility for my designs. It has been such a blessing to have a crossover between my creative work and my advocacy.

Any collaboration that I do at this point must have some kind of way to give back. So I’m glad that part of the See eyewear proceeds goes to amfAR, The Foundation for AIDS Research. It just makes sense to me to be able to do that for others.

What’s next for you?

Right now, I am focusing on restructuring my business. I would love to focus more on my fashion. Advocacy remains dear to me, so I would like more ways to do this crossover of my interests.

I am working on a new show where I am allowed to communicate about HIV and my creative work. I’m not very sure on the direction of it, but it’s important for me to give inspiration and information to young people.

 

This interview originally appeared on POZ.com.

 

Rugby Tackles Homophobia

  • October 29, 2015 - 12:58am

If you’re looking for a stereotypical macho sport, you don’t have to search further than rugby. A full-contact sport – without much protection – it’s got everything: brutal tackling. Dirt and mud. Plenty of parties.

 

But here’s the interesting thing. Those post-game festivities include both teams. Players sing bawdy songs – but with plenty of mutual admiration. Winners and losers gather together, showing respect on both sides.

 

That respect for opponents – for everyone in the rugby world, really – is one reason that the sport is so gay-friendly. Referee Nigel Owens came out in 2007, nearly a decade ago. Player Gareth Thomas came out in 2009; he was soon voted the most influential gay person in the U.K. There are other gay professional ruggers too.

 

The first gay rugby team – London’s Kings Cross Steelers – was founded 25 years ago. Today, there are more than two dozen gay rugby clubs. Some are in places you’d expect. Others might surprise you.

 

The Nashville Grizzlies were formed in 2006. In the decade since, spokesman Thomas Hormby says they’ve been treated well by every straight team they’ve met – even those from rural Tennessee and Alabama. “We talk a lot about brotherhood on the pitch,” he says. “We’ve always been embraced by our brothers, no matter what their views are off it.”

 

So it should not come as a surprise that USA Rugby – the sport’s national governing body – has taken a lead in the fight against homophobia. Last month the organization signed a “memorandum of understanding” with International Gay Rugby, formalizing a partnership to promote a diverse, inclusive environment at all levels of the game.

 

The announcement follows a similar agreement in March. At that time, IGR said it would collaborate with World Rugby on “the promotion of equality and inclusivity” around the globe.

The agreement with USA Rugby specifically ensures that American players are provided with the tools and education necessary to combat discrimination, whether based on sexual orientation, perceived sexual orientation or identification.

 

“USA Rugby recognizes the right of any player, official, coach and spectator to be involved in rugby without bullying, discrimination or exclusion of any kind, and celebrates the differences that make its members unique,” the official statement said.

 

International Gay Rugby is one of the most active LGBT sports associations on the planet. Its 56 members clubs in 15 countries receive developmental support and resources. IGR clubs play each other (and straight clubs), and host regional, continental and global tournaments and events celebrating diversity and inclusion in the rugby community.

 

The flagship event is the Mark Kendall Bingham Memorial Tournament. Named after the gay rugby player who was a passenger on United Airlines Flight 93 on September 11, 2001 – and who helped lead the resistance against the hijackers that crashed the plane in Pennsylvania, before it could be flown into the Capitol or White House – the next competition is set for May 22-29, 2016. There will be 1,500 players, on 45 teams. The tourney will be played in Nashville – the first time ever in the Mid-South, and the first time since 2010 it has been held in the U.S. The Grizzlies are hosts.

 

The upcoming tournament marks nearly 15 years since Mark Bingham’s heroism. At the time, the idea of a gay rugby player was novel. But as the world realized what transpired on board the plane that horrific morning, one athlete’s sexuality seemed far less important than the sense of purpose – and teamwork – of all the passengers who stormed the cockpit.

 

That camaraderie seems to be an important aspect of what makes rugby such an appealing sport to all who play it – gay and straight. 

 

But just because the Grizzlies’ experience has been so positive – and even though both USA Rugby and World Rugby are committed to inclusion and diversity – work remains to be done.

 

There are still pitches where anti-gay slurs are used. Some ruggers still resent gay athletes. That’s why the official statements from governing bodies – and the educational efforts that follow – are so important.

 

The anti-discrimination policies are also intended to encourage straight players to step up as LGBT allies. They won’t be the first. The coming-out announcements of gay players so far have been met with strong support from teammates, as well as opponents.

Of course, Hormby notes, plenty of gay rugby athletes have not yet come out. “We want to make our environment safe for everyone,” he says. “We want this to be the most inclusive sport in the world.”

So don’t be surprised when you hear stories about rugby – one of the most macho sports in the world – embracing its gay side. Who knows? There may soon be a post-game drinking song about it too.

 

7 Questions for Elvira: Mistress of the Dark

  • October 14, 2015 - 9:58pm

You seem like someone who is always living the dream, or, in your case, the nightmare. Did you always aspire to be a horror host?

Well, not many people know this, but I once considered becoming a nun. I mean, head to toe black and you never have a bad hair day? What’s not to love? But sadly I learned that the word “nun” also describes how much action they get, so I kicked that habit faster than you can say, “See ya’ later, sister!”

 

If you had to choose between hooking up with something like a vampire, a werewolf, or a mummy, which monster would you choose, and why?

Probably Frankenstein, because he’s always stiff. I wouldn’t go out with Dracula because, frankly, he sucks. But I do like hairy guys, so a wolf man wouldn’t be too bad.

 

I know a woman can never give up her secrets, but what lifestyle and beauty advice do you have for women who wish to look as beautiful and ageless as you?

Well, a gal can never wear too much eyeliner and hairspray. But most importantly, avoid having ugly parents.

 

What do you do to stay in shape?

Exorcise, exorcise, exorcise! And afterwards, drink plenty of holy water.

 

With the upcoming election, have you ever considered running for president?

I’d love to be president! But America would never elect someone with no experience, no morals, and a ridiculous hairdo. But enough about Donald Trump.

 

What is your favorite thing to do when you travel to Vegas?

Go on the ride at Buffalo Bill’s … Adventure Canyon!  Which is also coincidentally what they call my cleavage.

 

Where can Gay Vegas readers find you in the near future?

I’ll be performing live all of October at Knott’s Scary Farm in Southern California and appearing on an upcoming episode of Halloween Wars on Food Network. I just opened a new pop-up store at Sweet! Hollywood selling my own line of apparel and Elvira chocolate bars. I also have a new Christmas maquette and replica dagger coming out from Tweeterhead. Also, look for a new, state-of-the-art Elvira slot machine to hit Vegas soon! 

 

Kaleidoscope: The 21st Annual Honorarium

  • October 14, 2015 - 9:53pm

 

Celebrating the colorful, ever-changing community, this year’s Honorarium will be an extravagant evening of entertainment and recognition of community heroes. Beginning at 5 p.m., guests will mingle through Drai’s tropical paradise while bidding on an array of silent auction items. Perched atop the 11th floor of The Cromwell, guests will take in stunning views of The Strip while enjoying themed cocktails and light bites at Nevada’s premier LGBTQ fundraiser.  At 7 p.m., the event will move inside Drai’s posh, ultra-stylish interior space as The Center recognizes the following three community leaders and partners for their contributions to the Southern Nevada LGBTQ community and its allies. 

 

Person of the Year: Patrick C. Duffy 

A philanthropist, speaker and treasured art collector, Patrick C. Duffy melds his love for art with his passion to give back. A dedicated executive by day intent on improving the customer experience for guests of Diamond Resorts International, Duffy spends most of his non-working hours participating in a variety of nonprofit organizations within the Las Vegas community. He is chairman of the UNLV Galleries Advisory Board and serves on the boards of “I Have a Dream” Foundation of Southern Nevada and the Opportunity Village Foundation. 

 

 Ally of the Year: Beano Solomon

As a human rights and civic activist, Beano Solomon has had a significant impact within her community by supporting many local cultural institutions. In addition to being an avid supporter of LGBTQ organizations including The Center, Solomon serves on the board of directors for the Nevada Ballet Theater. Additionally, she has also made an impact nationally by changing the way people with AIDS access services at Washington, D.C.’s Whitman-Walker Clinic, successfully suing the state of Utah for the right to have a gay-affirming personalized license plate and much more. 

 

Corporation of the Year: Las Vegas Sands

In 2014, Las Vegas Sands launched Sands Cares, a cohesive corporate citizenship program dedicated to elevating and expanding efforts in three core areas – people, communities and the planet. As part of this effort, Las Vegas Sands is focused on making local communities a better place to live. The nonprofit has supported a variety of local organizations, including HELP of Southern Nevada, The Shade Tree, Three Square, DISCOVERY Children’s Museum and many more. Additionally, Las Vegas Sands made a major contribution to The Center’s capital campaign, assisting in the purchase of the Robert F. Forbuss building. 

 

Guests to this 21-and-over event are encouraged to dress in polychromatic chic attire (colorful fashion). The evening’s emcee is long-time Strip headliner Clint Holmes.

 

For more information about the Kaleidoscope: The Center’s 21st Annual Honorarium or to purchase tickets, please visit  thecenterlv.org/Honorarium

 

Tickets start at $150 per person with VIP upgrades available including poolside cabanas atop Drai’s picturesque rooftop. All proceeds benefit The Center. 

ELVIRA: Mistress of the Dark - Exclusive Interview with Cassandra Peterson

  • October 14, 2015 - 9:18pm

She is synonymous with all things horror, the “Queen of Halloween”, the busty “Hostess with the Mostess.” She is an actress, singer, dancer, sex symbol, and the world’s most famous female goth icon.  

She is, yours cruelly, Elvira, Mistress of the Dark. 

But once upon a midnight dreary, Elvira, who was born Cassandra Peterson, was a go-go dancer in a gay bar, a drag queen impersonator, a romantic interest to Elvis, and has even been recorded in the Guinness Book of World Records as the youngest showgirl in the history of Las Vegas.

Cassandra was born on September 17, 1951 in Manhattan, Kansas (“The Little Apple”) in a small town called Randolph. As a toddler, she pulled a tub of boiling Easter eggs off of the stove, burning over a third of her body and leaving her visibly scarred. In 1958, when Cassandra was seven-years-old, plans for the Tuttle Creek Dam would eventually submerge her small town, forcing her and her family to move west to Colorado Springs, Colorado, where she grew up very shy and was often teased for her scarring. 

In 1969, days after her high school graduation, 17-year-old Cassandra made the 12-hour drive from Colorado Springs to Las Vegas with nothing but a dream in her pocket.

Cassandra would become a showgirl in “Vive Les Girls” at The Dunes Hotel and Casino, where the Bellagio stands today. She would get the chance to meet legends like Sammy Davis Jr., Frank Sinatra, and Dean Martin, and would even go on a date with Elvis, who encouraged Cassandra to sing.

She followed Presley’s advice, moved to Italy, sang in an Italian pop-rock band, and even had a part in Federico Fellini’s 1972 movie Roma. After returning to the United States, she toured with seven gay men in a nightclub revue called Mama’s Boys.

Wanting to develop her acting and comedic skills, Cassandra joined the Groundlings improv troupe in 1979, where she developed characters alongside would-be-famous comedians like Paul Reubens and Phil Hartman.

In the spring of 1981, Cassandra was hired to host the Movie Macabre TV series. For her role, they wanted a character that was vampy and dressed all in black. The character Elvira was born.

In 1988, she co-wrote, produced and starred in a feature-length film called Elvira, Mistress of the Dark. She also co-wrote, produced and starred in Elvira’s Haunted Hills in 2001.

She has created and endorsed a number of Elvira products, including Halloween costumes, theme park rides, action figures, trading cards, pinball machines, Halloween decor, calendars, model kits, perfume, comic books, dolls, a video slot machine, and even her own micro-brew beer. She also makes appearances at a number of events each year, raising money and awareness for a number of causes, especially for animal welfare and AIDS charities. 

 

Just in time for Halloween, Gay Vegas got the chance to chat with the legendary Cassandra Peterson, aka Elvira. 

 

Did you always know you would have a career in show business? Why do you think this all happened to you?

When I was in Kansas, and around one and a half years old,, my dad took me to a parade and he pushed me up in front of the crowd and stuck me on the horse with Hopalong Cassidy. And suddenly I was in a parade and everybody was yelling and clapping at me. It was like, “Oh my god, this is fantastic!” 

 

I just wanted to be the center of attention. I would do anything to get attention. My parents had me up dancing on tables when I was a little kid. They’d go to restaurants and stick me up on the table, and I would sing, “How Much is That Doggie in the Window?” And people would throw pennies and change at me, and I was like, “Ah! This is awesome!” I don’t know, I got kind of bitten by the bug.

 

The rest of my life I just continued pursuing like, “What can I do to get everybody to look at me?” I wanted to be in show biz since I was very, very, very into music. I loved dancing and singing, and I thought, “That’s the way to go!”

 

It wasn’t like I started out saying, “I’m going to be Elvira.” But it’s a fairly odd coincidence because my mother did run a costume shop, and I dressed up in costumes to go to school, to church, shopping, wherever. I was always wearing some little kiddie drag. Believe me, when you do that and nobody else is wearing it, you are definitely the center of attention. So it’s kind of odd that 100 years later I’m wearing a costume almost everyday of my life.

 

You grew up as a bit of an outcast. Do you think that later helped you relate to your LGBT fans?

Oh definitely. Even though I wasn’t gay, I felt like I was very much – I had a lot of social anxiety, and I was a nerd. I was so into the horror and sci-fi thing. I was a goth before they had invented goth. I also had an accident when I was a child that I was burned – 35 percent of my body was skin grafted, and I looked really freaky. So that kept me away from people too, so I felt very much on the outside. I think I relate to gay people on that level too because they grew up feeling like outsiders as well, for a different reason. But that kind of held us together. That’s what we have in common.

 

I’ve seen a lot of crossover content that obviously stems over from your real life experiences used throughout your career. For example, in your movie Elvira: Mistress of the Dark, you’re trying to get $50,000 in funding for your own Vegas show at the Flamingo. Why did you choose Las Vegas, and why the Flamingo?

It’s kind of art imitating life. When I was a kid, when I was about 14, I saw Viva Las Vegas, the movie with Elvis Presley and Ann-Margret. I just got it in my head that that’s where I wanted to go and that’s what I wanted to do. I wanted to be in Vegas, and I wanted to be a showgirl. I kind of obsessed on that for the next few years.

 

It was bizarre. I went on vacation with my mom and dad when I was just about 16. We stopped in at The Dunes Hotel and I begged them to let me go in to see the show with them. They said that I was “too young”, so I put on tons of eyelashes, makeup, a wiglet and put on a push-up bra that I got at Frederick’s so I could look really “sophisticated.” I went with them and the maître d’ said, “Are you a showgirl?” And I was like, “No, no, oh my god.” Next thing I know, the dance mistress came out and asked me if I wanted to audition the next day for a new show at The Dunes called “Vive Les Girls”. Everything was vive, right? Vive, viva, vivat. Anyway, I auditioned and I got the part. My parents pulled me by the hair back home so I could finish high school, and I did. I finished school and the day that I graduated I jumped in my car, went back and started rehearsals for this show in Vegas. That’s how I became the youngest showgirl in Las Vegas history. I was 17. So the movie was like my real life – Elvira wanting to get to Vegas more than anything. I actually picked the Flamingo because I liked their sign the best. I didn’t think the Dunes sign was as impressive. For visuals, the Flamingo sign looked really awesome! So we got the rights to show the sign and used it for the movie. 

 

In the 2001 film Elvira’s Haunted Hills, Dr. Bradley says, “Elvira’s soon to be one of gay Paree’s foremost entertainers.” Elvira replies, “The straight guys like me too.” You have been very supportive of the LGBT community which has been a huge part of your life and career. Can you tell us about that?

I was a go-go dancer when I was 14, dancing at nightclubs. One of the first clubs I danced at was this club called The Purple Cow, right outside of Fort Carson. So there were a lot of military guys. I didn’t know it was a gay club – I wondered why these great guys were dressed as women. They were so awesome. They helped me get my look together and my makeup. I actually ended up as a drag queen. One of the guys didn’t show up that night and I had to step in for him in an act they were doing as The Supremes, they needed three girls obviously. One of them was black, his name was Tawny Tan, and the other one was white, his name was Mr. Bobby. But I had to not only do drag – I had to be in blackface. It was pretty un-PC. Oh my god! But everybody thought I made a fantastic drag queen, because I was actually a woman. And these guys just were my best friends at the time.

It was just like a giant awakening for me, “Oh my god. Drag queens! Gay men. Ah!” I just loved the whole vibe. They nurtured me, taught me what to do. Later on in my life, I just met so many gay men who changed and influenced me so much. I was just so attracted to them. I thought, “Hot men who didn’t want to just jump my bones.” It was so fantastic because up until then it was just straight guys trying to bang me everywhere I went. This was like I could be with these hot, funny, interesting guys, and they didn’t try to put the make on me. I felt really at home and comfortable with them. And I got tons of fabulous makeup tips and hair tips! I’ve just sort of been in that world forever. I always say it’s come full circle because I used to dress up like a drag queen and now drag queens are dressing up like me.

 

In Vegas, there are a lot go-go girls at gay bars, and not just for the ladies. Gay guys have always just loved a hard working diva.

They do! 

 

How did you get the gig?

I was doing a couple gigs at Fort Carson a few nights a week. I think somebody told me, “Hey, there’s a club right outside. You should see if you can get a couple more gigs there.” So I did.

 

So what was it about Las Vegas that called to you at 17-years-old?

The whole thing about the Elvis movie, which I obsessed – I really, when I say obsessed, I mean obsessed. I dreamed about Viva Las Vegas the movie. I thought about it at night. In the daytime. Everything. I honestly think I just made it become real because I thought about it so much, and just saw myself being that. It’s pretty amazing that I thought about that when I was 14 and at 17-years-old, there I am. In Las Vegas. Meeting Elvis. Meeting Ann-Margret. Actually going on a date with Elvis.

They say to think is to create.

Exactly. And I’m living proof of that. I had plenty of people getting in my way. I mean my parents would go, “Oh you’re never going to be in Vegas. Those women are tall and beautiful. You’re never going to be able to do that. You have scars,” and so on. All my friends and people and teachers and everyone would say that. But I had one art teacher, my favorite, who I would later find out was gay – I didn’t know it at the time when I was in high school. I told him I wanted to be a showgirl in Las Vegas, and he said to me, “Well just do it.”  When he said that, something clicked, honestly. And I just went, “Okay, I will.”

Can you tell us a little more about your intimate involvement with Elvis?

I got invited to by one of the other showgirls, who was dating Elvis’ road manager, Joe Esposito. She said she was going to Elvis’ suite for a party after the show, and I really – I begged, pleaded, cried, everything. She took me along with her, and Elvis kind of glommed onto me because, you know, I was 17 and everybody else there was probably over 30. He and I started talking about life, religion, music, about everything! He played the piano, and he and I sang together. He showed me things he had gotten from the president and other celebrities. And then we were making out here and there. It was like, “Oh my god. This can’t be happening. It just can’t be happening.”

 

That’s unreal.

I had the night of my life. He was a doll, and it was like a dream come true. I wish I would have been just a year or so older. Dammit!

 

Can you describe what your life was like as a Las Vegas showgirl back then? Anything like Showgirls the movie?

No! My god! When I saw Showgirls, I was like, “Oh my god, what a crock of crap.” It is so nothing like that. Not back then anyway. My dreams were a little shattered because it wasn’t quite as glamorous as I thought. It was a very difficult job. You spent a lot of hours there. You went in at about 7 in the evening. I had full body makeup – head to toe because of my scars – and then I would do my show makeup, which would take another hour. Then you would do the shows, we had three a night, so we wouldn’t finish until 4 a.m. And then you would go eat, try to get some things done, and then you went to sleep. We worked seven days a week. There was no day off. They had a swing day you would get off once a month. It was brutal. It was super hard work. Working that hard was really intense. I had one year of that. The day my contract ended, I was done. I couldn’t handle it. So it wasn’t all glamour. There were some glamorous times. We’d get invited to really great parties, like Frank Sinatra’s birthday and Engelbert Humperdinck’s house. All these different places. And of course, I got invited to meet Elvis and all that. There were some exciting moments, but it was a tough job. And nobody was a hooker. Nobody was doing wacky things on the side. There was no time. You were working all the time.

 

On your swing days, what were some of your favorite places to go in Las Vegas?

I went to this one gay bar – the only gay bar I knew of in Las Vegas at the time. Le Café! My friends and I called it “Le Gay Café.” That’s where we went and hung out. It was my favorite place to go, and that’s where I went with all the dancers – ually with my best friends, the two boy dancer-singers from my show. They were called “Vest and Clark” –  Buddy Vest and Sterling Clark and they were incredibly good-looking and talented. Buddy sadly passed from AIDS. Sterling is still around and we have remained friends after all these years.  All the boy dancers in Vegas would go to Le Café and we would go there every night after work. A lot of times we would go and see a show first – Ike and Tina Turner, The Jackson 5, and people like that, who were playing in the lounges. It was pretty crazy!  

You often say that transforming into Elvira is like “getting into drag.” Do you have a greater appreciation for drag queens than the average person?

Oh god, do I ever. I tell you, you’re uncomfortable the whole time. It’s fun and it’s exciting, but my god, your feet, you know? You’re pulling your waist in, you’re piling on a ton of makeup, you’ve got these eyelashes that are dragging your eyes down, a huge wig, makeup that gets smeared and you have to check your lips every five minutes. For me, it’s totally being in drag! It’s fun and great, but it’s kind of a tough job! So I definitely appreciate anyone who does drag! 

 

What was your inspiration for the look of the Elvira character?

My best friend at the time, Robert Redding, and I had a band together in the ‘70s – in the whole big gay disco era. We were in a band called Mama’s Boys, and I was Mama and I had seven gay men with me. We did dancing, singing, and comedy. Robert ended up becoming just my best, best friend. Once the show dissolved, we lived here in LA. And when I got the part of Elvira and I was supposed to come up with a look for a horror host, Robert stepped in and said, “Let me help you!” He did drag. He was an artist, a singer, and a drag queen. He had just been working in Shakespeare’s Macbeth, playing one of the witches and played a drag character that had similar makeup that he had found in a kabuki makeup book. So he did my makeup. He cut and styled the wig after his favorite singer, which is Ronnie Spector of The Ronnettes, who called the hairdo a “knowledge bump”. Then he made the dress as sexy and tight as he could. He literally cut and sewed the dress, hair, makeup. We worked on it together, but mostly it was his creation. I was going, “Oh my god, this is fantastic!” So it was basically influenced by another drag queen. When I was in Mama’s Boys, he was such an inspiration to me. He was like a stage mom saying, “Girl, this is how you’re gonna walk. This is what you’re going do.” I didn’t have much confidence and he would just practically slap me and say, “Get it together Mary, get your ass out there.” It was fantastic. He gave me the confidence I needed in life. Sadly he passed away from AIDS. Him and everybody I knew. It was one of the worst things to ever happen in my life – especially losing him, and so many others. Robert had a huge influence on my life. Not just with the Elvira character, but a million other things.

 

A lot of the gay men that you worked with in Mama’s Boys also passed from AIDS?

Everybody in Mama’s Boys, except one. Six of them all died of AIDS. Our last gig was in Provincetown. Let me tell you, all my friends from Provincetown – that town was just wiped out. Everybody was gone. I go back there now, there’s nobody that I know. They all died. I threw away my telephone book because there was nobody left in it. It was unbelievable. I never wanted to pick up my telephone because I didn’t know who else was sick or who else was going to die. I swear there was a time there where I just didn’t think I was going to make it. It’s hard for people to believe now, but it was like the black plague. 

 

Is that how your work with AIDS charities started?

Oh yeah. Back then I was doing everything I could. Mostly just to help people like Robert, who didn’t have a lot of money. He had to pay for medicine, hospital visits and didn’t have insurance. So I started working with Project Angel Food, which had just started at the time. That’s how I started getting involved, and I just kept building on that.

You yourself, do you identify as LGBT?

I do in a way, but I’m not any of those letters, what they stand for. But I very much identify with – I identify with being a gay man. Isn’t that bizarre?

So you’re a gay man trapped in a woman’s body?

Yes! Oh my god, they have to come up with a name for that so it can be added on the end of the T. 

You have a daughter – Sadie. She also has a beautiful voice. How does she handle the whole Elvira thing, and do you think she would ever follow in your footsteps?

When she was little she loved the Elvira thing. She thought it was awesome. Then she got to be a preteen and that all went to hell. She was totally embarrassed. She’d say things like, “Why can’t you be like a normal mom?” I’d go, “Honey, I’ve never been normal, and I’m not going to start now.” But now that she’s a little older she appreciates the character – she’s going to be 21 in October.

Birthday party! Vegas!

Right! Oh my god! She’s been doing some gender things lately. Like I just said to her the other day, “are you going Chaz Bono on me?” Because she’s been dressing in drag – in male drag. And she looks awesome as a boy, and she’s so not masculine. She’s super feminine, but she decided she doesn’t want to wear any makeup and no bra, and keep her hair super short. She’s doing this non-specific gender thing, which I think is really cool. I wish I could have done that and not been clomping around in heels with 12 pairs of eyelashes and a wiglet on my whole life.”

 

Yeah, I think people nowadays are more in touch with their birth selves and are less so conforming to society.

It’s so great, and I think it’s so cool that she is doing this and is freed from that whole stereotype with how women and men have to be. She’s exploring that whole world. It’s pretty awesome, and I’m very proud of her.

 

Do you think she will follow in your footsteps into show business?

I hope so! She’s a very, very talented singer and guitar player, she’s playing the bass now. I don’t think she’ll ever be Elvira. I don’t think that’s her kind of thing. I hope she does continue to work in music because she loves music so much and she’s so good at it. 

 

People can spot Elvira a mile away. But when you lose the wig, the makeup and wear something that isn’t black, can you walk amongst the public unnoticed?

Oh yeah, definitely. I go everywhere. I rarely get noticed. If I’m at an event such as a horror or sci-fi convention and people know I’m there, then I will get recognized because they’re looking for me. But if I’m just walking around LA or going out to a restaurant or doing things, I rarely get recognized. A little more nowadays, but it used to be never. Once in a while I get recognized, after all, I am in Hollywood and people are always on the lookout for celebrities. I can pretty much have a normal life. You can’t believe how important that is, other celebrities I know can’t go out to dinner or do anything without being bothered. So I am very, very lucky. It sounds silly, but until it’s happened to you, you really don’t understand how important privacy is.  

 

I’m sure you receive a lot of interesting fan mail. Can you tell us about that?

Over the years I’ve got some really crazy stuff. I’ve saved most of it – the really bizarre stuff. I got a snake from someone. It was as big as a pencil, but it was a python so it grew to 13 feet. I named it Dick, of course. What else? I got a Rottweiler from another fan and it started me on my passion for Rottweilers, which I have continued to rescue. Fans give me odd stuff – awesome paintings, and thousands of pictures of their Elvira tattoos on their various body parts.

 

That’s dedication!

Yeah, my fans are hardcore. They are really, really hardcore. It’s pretty awesome. Elvira tattoos have to be the sincerest form of flattery. They are fantastic. And they don’t care how old I get, what I look like, nothing. They love me, and I love them.    

 

Your brand has become a huge merchandising, licensing and marketing phenomenon. How is it you became so good at branding?

I’ve had a lot of help over the years. A lot of good licensing people. And I have a great one now. But coming up with ideas and pitching them. Thinking, “Oh we should have an Elvira this. We should have an Elvira that.” And getting out there, having meetings. I mean that’s my main job – I’m kind of a business person. I call people and approach people about doing different products, and getting Elvira out there on different shows and doing PR and all of that. Keep the brand going, and keep her in the public eye as much as possible. The lucky break for me was that I became associated with a holiday. So I’m a little bit like Santa Claus at Christmas. Everybody expects Elvira to come out around Halloween. So even when things are quiet during the rest of the year – and they’re never quiet for me, but when people don’t see as much of Elvira – I’m busy plotting and planning all my next moves.

 

I’ve always thought it would be awesome if Vegas had a haunted/horror-themed casino. Maybe with vampire dealers and some of the Elvira video slot machines. Would Elvira ever consider starring in her own Las Vegas show on The Strip?

Oh damn! You cannot believe how many times I have pitched that, and pitched a casino. I had big designers and big people in this business designing a whole thing called Elvira’s Voodoo Lounge that we were pitching to go into one of the hotels. I’ve pitched two or three shows with spooky themes and can never make it happen! It’s one of the only things that’s just like this thorn in my side, because I really would love to go back to Vegas. Like Elvira in the movie. I just can’t seem to make it happen!

 

They say some of the best things in life come later.

Yup, it could happen later on. I won’t give up. I’m going to keep trying. Because I think it’s just so perfect. So like “Zumanity” – having Elvira hosting a horror-themed show. 

 

I think you deserve a place in Las Vegas!

I don’t think the people I was dealing with there realize how popular horror is. They seem to think it comes and goes, or that there’s a small demographic. I don’t think so! 

 

If I could make everyday Halloween I would.

Exactly! You and every gay man alive. I spent so many years down on Santa Monica Boulevard for Halloween before I became Elvira and it was just like the day every queen waits for their whole life. It really is the best holiday anyway. You don’t have to buy presents or have crappy dinners with your relatives. You just dress up, go out and have fun!

 

Zombie Burlesque

  • October 14, 2015 - 9:04pm

It’s 1958, and disastrous nuclear tests have created an ever-growing population of zombies in America! Thankfully, a Zombie Peace Accord has been reached, and as long as we keep feeding them (BRAINS!!), they will behave properly and work to entertain the living at the swankiest nightclubs in town. We now go live, to Club Z, for an exclusive report on the coolest and creepiest of these “dead-stravaganzas” - Zombie Burlesque! 

 

Yes, the living dead have come to the Las Vegas Strip in a clever, ridiculous, and hugely entertaining revue from producer David Saxe and director/choreographer Tiger Martina, showcasing the talents of an exuberant cast of frisky flesh-eaters, backed by a kick-ass onstage band. 

 

Taking my seat at the intimate V Theater in the Miracle Mile Shops at Planet Hollywood Casino and Hotel, I really didn’t know what to expect. No matter. The show begins with a raucous opening credit sequence on an LED screen at the back of the stage. We see human characters projected onscreen, with live zombie actors onstage, attacking and dismembering them in colorful ways. Next, a March of Time-style newsreel explains how the Zombie/Human situation came to be, and finally, our decomposing compere, Zenoch (Enoch Augustus Scott), welcomes us to Club Z, and introduces us to the zombie performers. From that point forward, we get act after act of sexy, silly, even occasionally beautiful undead talent!

 

Almost as soon as the action starts, it’s interrupted by a food delivery - a truck backs onstage and dumps a load of fresh prisoners. Zombie Mikey (Patrick Leahy), a slightly dopey collegiate jock type, misses out on his share, but Zenoch comes to the rescue, pointing out one remaining body part - it’s a...well, let’s just say it’s a tube steak. When Mikey protests, thinking the man-meat will turn him gay, Zenoch reassures him with a cleverly re-written Sondheim song, which becomes an hilarious ode to homosexuality, complete with a rainbow flag graphic and rainbow-hued lighting. 

 

We meet Miss Lola Gangrene (Lora Kelsey) who gives us a classic strip tease to Screamin’ Jay Hawkins’ “I Put a Spell on You”, while holding a disembodied hand, which removes the clothing for her. Miss Carvin’ Miranda (Talia Marino) does a lovely aerial silks act, which takes considerable skill to begin with, but must be especially challenging on the somewhat confined stage of the V Theater. Still, she pulls it off beautifully! There’s a funny spoof of The Newlywed Game (or is that The Newly-dead Game?!) where a married couple from the audience is pitted against a zombie couple. A frenetic dance by two diminutive puppet people includes a sick, but extremely funny homage to Marilyn Monroe’s iconic dress-blowing scene in The Seven Year Itch, and hilarious drag zombie Tiny Bubbles (Steve Daley), resplendent in a plus-size poodle skirt, supp hose, and ’50’s flip hairdo, does an “unforgettable” magic trick with an audience member.

 

A short “intermission” brings a send-up of the Old Gold Cigarette TV ads of the 1950’s, but in this case, we have a box of lime Jell-o and a bottle of vodka tap dancing to the theme from The Blob. The result of this romantic union? Free Jell-o shots for everyone!

 

A surprisingly tender moment comes, as Elizabeth Terror (April Leopardi) and Deadi Arnaz (Antenor Silva) dance a beautiful balletic pas de deux/strip tease to the Cranberries song “Zombie”, with gorgeous pointe work from Leopardi, sensitive partnering from Antenor, and a simple, yet breathtaking special effect that demonstrates the love growing inside them.

 

Also showing off their considerable talents are Sophia LaMorte (Sophia Monica) singing in a graveyard with her deceased beaus, and Latin zombie hunk Johnny Wife-Mauler 

 

(Jeffrey De Barathy), whose dancing skills and spectacular physique are displayed in a Zombies in Space number. To be honest, I’m not quite sure what happened during this bit, as Jeffrey stripped down to a metallic codpiece, and I was somewhat distracted!

 

Other acts include a zombie pole dance on a carousel horse, a strip tease tribute to Attack of the 50 Foot Woman, with Lola Gangrene dancing around a miniaturized town, tearing the roofs off buildings and pulling out hapless Ken dolls, all to the tune of Ida Maria’s “I Eat Boys Like You For Breakfast”, and if all this weren’t enough, Zombie Mikey’s transformative return at the end of the show, will have you howling!

 

The show’s finale starts as a calypso number, with the cast singing and dancing to Harry Belafonte’s “Jump In The Line”, but they’re interrupted by what should be another food delivery. 

 

Unfortunately though, the state has run out of prisoners, and there are no bodies for the zombies, throwing them into a panic. What do they do? Pray, of course! They don choir robes and stage a Zombie Revival to LaVerne Baker’s “Saved” (I used to smoke, drink and dance the Hootchie-koo...) They realize there will always be plenty of food, because there is no shortage of sinners, and once again, all is well in the world of the walking dead!

 

Okay...let’s face it. This is not high end theater! “Zombie Burlesque” is a bit raunchy and features puerile, VERY lowbrow humor. But it is a ton of fun, featuring great production values and a lot of talent. At 75 minutes, the show flies by, and everyone onstage seems to be having a great time. The strip numbers are risqué, but never vulgar, and the entire cast is pure eye candy. So whether you’re male, female, gay, straight, or merely confused like Zombie Mikey, I guarantee you’ll find a hot zombie that’s...to your taste!

 

SHARE NIGHTCLUB OPEN & EVOLVING UNDER NEW OWNERSHIP

  • October 14, 2015 - 8:44pm

 

Ever since we at Gay Vegas reported that previous owner Michael Crisp sold Share Nightclub on Sept. 17, many have wondered what this means for local LGBT community members and tourists. We decided to put any rumors to rest by speaking to the new owner – Chris Rosas.

During our chat, we got to know a little bit more about Chris and what we can expect from Share, which he makes clear is open, evolving, and will boast a new air of excitement, despite any rumors to the contrary. 

 

Tell us a bit about yourself. How did you get into this business?

I’ve been in real estate development since the ‘90s and I got into the hotel business in 2003 in San Francisco. I opened my first cabaret bar and nightclub in 2003 when I got into the hotel business. I created a successful hotel management and ownership company. We got up to about seven hotels before I sold that company in 2011. It was a family business previously, and I sold it to friends. I would then form our residential and hospitality development company. In that company I created – with other very creative people – Infusion Lounge in San Francisco, which is still to this day the highest grossing nightclub per square foot in San Francisco history. It has been around for about seven years. Later, I formed Infusion Lounge at Universal Studios, and that is in its fifth and sixth year currently. I’ve also been in development with an Infusion Beach & Hotel in Palm Springs, as well as another Infusion Lounge and a 42-story apartment structure in San Diego.

 

The purchase of Share was an extension of all the culmination of my years of experience in the nightclub business. I’ve always wanted a gay nightclub. Over the years, I have succeded and failed.The failures will  bum you out, but nothing is rosy and perfect. If you don’t try, then you know what? You’ve already failed. That’s my opinion.

 

You yourself, are you gay?

Yes. I am. 

 

So what can we expect with the new ownership of Share Nightclub? Will it continue to be a gay nightclub?

Yes, absolutely. We’ve been very excited that we can now share, in your publication actually, an ad that talks about, “Open now and evolving into the future.” The picture of the guy on the front is one of our shareholders – it’s my best mate Antony Searle. Antony is a British citizen and he’s been my business partner for the past three years in Infusion Beach and some of the other things we’ve been doing in England. Antony’s excited to be involved with Share.

 

It’s all about new wallpaper, new paint, cleaning up the place, and making sure that we can provide a bottle service experience, VIP experience, and general admission experience that is on par with the other mainstream nightclubs in Las Vegas.

 

For many years I’ve seen the struggle where the gays had to be on the side of the road and such. There’s no reason why we can’t give better service to our own. 

 

It’s about new faces and old, it’s about the evolution of Share, it’s about creating a classier, more exciting and invigorating environment for the tourists and for the locals. 

 

If people are interested in VIP or bottle service, whom should they contact?

Our VIP host Lisa Hammond at 702-510-5087

 

What message do you want to send to Las Vegas locals?

Well, we’re open. And we’re always going to be a gay club, as long as I’m living at least, and I should have a good 20 something plus years on me.

 

We’re open, we’re welcoming new faces and we’re welcoming old faces. The world’s not being laid off, and I’m not closing it. This is an ongoing venture and we’re excited for the locals and the tourists to watch the evolution of what Share is and what it will become. 

 

Can you give us a sneak peek into some of the new changes we can expect?

Downstairs is going to get a slight remodel. Not really a repositioning of furniture and stuff, but we’re going to change the wallpaper, paint, the lighting scheme – do a lot of the additional maintenance that hadn’t been done.  By the time it gets to New Years,  you’ll see a real refresh aesthetically of Share Nightclub. 

 

We’re an E for everyone club. Share is definitely an LGBT nightclub and will remain that way, but we welcome straight, we welcome LGBT, we welcome everybody to have a good time and enjoy themselves. 

 

On Halloween Saturday, October 31st, you can see performances by the Vampire Strippers Must Die movie cast. Share is currently open every Thursday, Friday and Saturday night. For employment opportunities contact Share Nightclub directly. 

Peaches Lets It All Hang Out

  • October 3, 2015 - 5:07pm

“Look. I don’t have breasts anymore.”

 

Peaches is reminiscing on a dear friend she grew up with, when he showed up at her door, and came out to her as transgender. Memories of their summers spent together spill out of her as if they happened yesterday.

 

They didn’t, of course. Those summers are long past. But the influence of Sean (then Susan) on young Peaches endures because it was “quite big,” the music-making provocateur reveals as she traces her own path to self-discovery.

 

The Toronto-born, Berlin-based Peaches is 46 now, and as a revered wielder of raunch, she has devoted her 20-year career to cutting down gender norms with her electroclash throwdowns. And sex – she sings a lot about that too.

 

After dropping her 1995 debut Fancypants Hoodlum, released under her birth name, Merrill Beth Nisker, she ignited a sexual frenzy with “Fuck the Pain Away,” a song that’s about as subtle as its title. With a colorful tracklist that includes “Vaginoplasty” and “Dick in the Air,” Rub, her latest queer contribution, doesn’t beat around the bush either.

 

In conversation, Peaches is just as freewheeling. During our interview, the performance artist talked penis onesies, menstruation and learning to love your vagina.

 

You studied theater but then ended up going into music. How surrounded were you by queer culture during that period in your life? And how did what you experience shape you and your desire to explore queerness in your art?

 

It was an arts culture, but it wasn’t necessarily queer at that time. But I did have a serious relationship at the time with a woman – or a girl, or a girl becoming a woman – so I was growing up spending my summers, from when I was 7 to 14, with one person. Her childhood name was Susan, and she told me when she was 7, “I’m a guy. I don’t know why I’m in this woman’s body.”

She used to punch me in the stomach and be like, “See how strong I am!” She was just a very strong character. Also humorous but scathing too – quite tortured. And then slowly, she became a man. At 18 she came over and said, “Look. I don’t have breasts anymore,” and became who he wanted to be: Sean. So early on I was already questioning these things through the experience of the one person I spent all my summers with.

 

When did you feel you had a handle on who you were?

I was pretty spaced out for a long time and then, I don’t know. I guess, like, 30. (Laughs)

 

How would you describe Rub to a 12-year-old kid?

“This is an album you listen to to make your parents angry.” It’s exactly what a 12-year-old wants to listen to. You wanna giggle along to “Dick in the Air.” Kids are way more advanced now. They can handle this.

 

You think so?

Yeah. And if they can’t, then they have very good mechanisms of denial. I know I did in my head, and then years later, I’d be like, “Oh wait, I like that song” or, “That thing I didn’t understand – I get it now!” I remember hearing that song by Berlin called “Sex (I’m A)” on the radio and being like, “What was that?!”

 

How did you first learn about sex?

Wow. I don’t really remember, which is funny. I do remember being in the shower with my mother and asking her what a period was.

           

How did she explain a period?

Just very matter of factly. I remember kids three years older than me being like, “Do you put a period at the end of a sentence?”

 

Pun intended.

Yeah – see. It’s probably why I’m so punny.

 

Why has sex and not just sex, but visceral, in-your-face sex – been such a muse in your career?

 

It’s not just sex. My concern is, why aren’t people comfortable in their own bodies? Why are we denying ourselves talking directly about what it is that makes us tick, and why do we have to cover it up? And then also, just in pop music – back then, why was it always skirting around the issue? Literally skirting around the issue. Pun intended.

 

It just amazed me, the imbalance of how men would express themselves in classic rock songs. Rod Stewart stuff. “Spread your wings and let me come inside.” Why am I singing that? Why is half the population singing that? I wanna sing my way. So I did it my way, wondering why there was this imbalance and why I like these songs. I’m singing along with old blues songs too. But, actually, old blues songs were more balanced, like Bessie Smith: “I need a little sugar in my bowl; I need a little hot dog on my roll.” You know, there’s nothing subtle about that.

 

There was a time when it was taboo for females to be frank about their sexuality. You really blazed that trail.

 

And I’m really happy about that. (People) would be like, “Why do you write these songs?” And I’d be like, “I feel like this is a missing link in what we actually need to evolve into,” and also, yeah, questioning what was mainstream and saying, “I don’t want to bow to the mainstream; I want the mainstream to come up to me.” Now, 15 years later, the mainstream actually is coming to me. So I’m like, “Woooohoooo.”

 

What is your opinion of sex in mainstream culture these days?

The same. What do you think?

 

Not because I like it, but what comes to mind is that J. Lo and Iggy Azalea video for “Booty.”

Ack! It just doesn’t work as a song. If it worked as a song, maybe it would be interesting. I would think more of Nicki Minaj and Beyoncé’s “Feeling Myself,” and (Nicki) says “I’m feelin’ myself, jack rabbit” – that’s such a good line. I think that Nicki Minaj broke it. And people say, “Peaches, how can you like Nicki Minaj?” I’m like, no, she broke through hip-hop. She slays all these guys and they know it. It’s undeniable.

 

Beyond sex, youve famously subverted gender norms.

Yeah, make it all fluid.

 

What kind of influence do you think Miley Cyrus and Caitlyn Jenner are having on the gender dialogue?

They’re just opening up the dialogue. Let’s see if it’s a trend or if we’re really gonna change things, because things are moving exponentially in every direction. I mean, we still have Kim Davis. I love that whoever wrote “Eye of a Tiger” (Survivor frontman Frankie Sullivan) sued her for using the song. I’m so happy. When she got out of jail she did this whole speech, but she’s obviously mentally imbalanced. And Donald Trump too.

 

And anybody who’s going by these completely heteronormative patriarchal attitudes – what are you hiding from? Not them specifically, but why do you find what I do, which is like, “Hey, let’s be open,” offensive or transgressive? It’s about being open so that everybody can actually become the person they are and feel comfortable in their own bodies. We do all these things to get away from our own bodies, but we live in them. I wrote a song called “Vaginoplasty” because people are like, “Oh, my vagina looks horrible; I need plastic surgery on my vagina” – not because of gender reassignment, not because of accidents, but purely for cosmetic reasons. And it’s like, “You came out of that thing – why are you so afraid of it?” It’s ridiculous to me.

 

It’s ridiculous how we deny our bodies and have all these stipulations and family values, which are just patriarchal family values, it seems. Like Ashley Madison websites – come on. That is not a normal way to live, where you have all these secrets because you can’t keep that front. There are urges and things we really need. Why are we denying ourselves that?

 

There’s always been subtext to your hypersexual songs. And there are layers and layers there, and listeners can choose to dig and dig or purely see them as bedroom bump songs.

Then goal achieved. Thank you. It should be a bedroom bump song or a party song, or you go like, “Oh, what am I singing about? What am I singing along to?” And then you’re like, “Oh. Cool. Wow.”

 

In that way, regarding multiple purposes, I relate more to female comedians like Tina Fey, Natasha Leggero, Amy Schumer, Tig Notaro and Margaret Cho because they do the same thing – they make you laugh, and then you’re like, “Oh my god, she’s right. Holy shit. What are we really doing?” So I realize that I relate more to, actually, a lot of older female comedians and performance artists than I do musicians.

 

When it comes to Rub, what do you want the primary takeaway to be?

It’s just a celebration. Seriously. I want it to be like a post-gender and post-age celebration of becoming who you are.

 

Is it a reflection of who you are at this point in your life?

Definitely. Do you want to get into the breakup songs yet?

 

Yes! Lets talk about those.

Yeah, because that helped in the middle of (working on) the album. Especially a song like “Free Drink Ticket,” which is a very angry song, but it’s a real emotion that everybody can relate to. When hurt happens to someone you love the most and then it becomes complete hate. It’s amazing that someone you love becomes someone you totally wanna murder, at least for a few months.

 

And this is how you felt after the breakup you experienced while recording this album?

Yeah, definitely. I think a lot of people do. “I wanna kill that person!” But then you get over it. It was an interesting twist of events, not unlike Kim Gordon or Björk – very similar situation. It was just bizarre that I was in sort of the same position; they’re both in my age range, so it was kind of like, “Wow, how am I gonna deal with this?”

 

Have you ever had sex to your own music?

No! Are you crazy? That’s disgusting. Someone tried and I was like, “Forget it, buddy – get out!” Actually... it was a woman.

 

Where can I get a knitted dick onesie like the one you and Margaret Cho wear in the video for Dick in the Air?

A friend of mine found those, so I think you’ll have to knit one yourself. Also, I found a documentary online where they used these outfits to talk about family units, and it’s funny because they blur out the knitted penises and the knitted breasts. It’s amazing.

 

But what she found were five Caucasian outfits – an old man, an old woman, a young boy, a young woman and a person with both breasts and dick – and then there was a brown person’s costume, and a yellow one for Asian people and also a redhead with a very little weenie. Actually, the Asian one had the largest penis.

 

Whats it like wearing it?

Um, very hot and sweaty. We were in L.A. I chose the old man’s outfit. I wanted to know what it’s like when your balls hang low.

 

 

 

The Riot’s Riot

  • October 3, 2015 - 4:47pm

Blowback from a mere two-minute-and-twenty-three-second trailer of Stonewall stormed the web in early August. It was intense. Like the historic brick-throwing, slur-lashing brawl that broke out in New York City outside a Greenwich Village gay bar in 1969, it provoked an uproar. And also like the Stonewall riots, the melting pot of people the film sought to represent felt… unrepresented.

 

“To all considering watching the newest whitewashed version of queer history,” began self-proclaimed 18-year-old “transwomyn of color” Pat Cordova-Goff via the Gay-Straight Alliance Network, alleging the movie’s cast lacked diversity. As she declared her resistance to openly gay action-turned-indie director Roland Emmerich’s fictional interpretation based around the events leading up to a landmark moment in LGBT history, the Stonewall riots, she rallied a fervent army of fellow boycotters. Twenty-four thousand... and counting.

 

The issue, according to Cordova-Goff and other opponents: Its ivory lead, Jeremy Irvine as small-town-turned-big-city rebel Danny Winters, is white.

 

And it’s true. He is not black. He is not Puerto Rican. He is not female. But the Stonewall ensemble, Irvine insists, is a “wide, diverse cast.” The 25-year-old English actor fully acknowledges he expected a passionate reaction to the film, particularly because “we’re doing a story that is so important to so many people.”

Irvine, though, did not foresee the kind of pre-release revolt from those who claimed Stonewall underemphasized the trans community and queer women of color, deeming the film a “whitewashed” take on an otherwise mixed-minority historical occurrence.

 

“That was a surprise; I never expected to hear that,” says Irvine, spotlighting Danny’s band of fellow rioters: Marsha P. Johnson (Otoja Abit), a black transwoman who co-founded Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries with prominent trans activist Sylvia Rivera, and a lesbian credited by some as initiating the riot, calling on others to “do something.” Breakout actor Jonny Beauchamp also stars, playing self-proclaimed “street queen” Ray / Ramona, a composite of both Rivera and jailed protester Raymond Castro.

 

Emmerich insists his dramatization, inspired by a distant friend’s real-life experience and also Emmerich’s own, is “inclusive”; that Irvine’s Danny is the lens through which we see these events unfold. “I think it’s cool when a white kid learns from a Puerto Rican and a black kid,” he continues, “and is a better person afterwards. Becomes a true friend.”

 

Regarding the controversy: Emmerich says that, while shooting Independence Day: Resurgence, “they kept it away from me.”

 

“Only for so long, however,” he continues. “After a while, you kind of know what’s going on. I was shocked. Luckily, I had some gay activists, like Larry Kramer, speak up for us.” (Kramer, the 80-year-old writer and HIV activist, addressed Emmerich on Facebook: “Don’t listen to the crazies,” he wrote. “And thank you for your passion.”)

 

So: Why did Emmerich cast a white, as he calls him, “catalyst character”?

 

He says, simply, “You have to put yourself a little bit in, and I’m white.”

 

Stonewall was never intended to focus on race but rather it was meant to trace the beginnings of the gay rights movement, the steps we’ve made and the steps we haven’t.

 

For Emmerich, the director behind major blow-up-everything blockbusters such as

 Independence Day, Godzilla and Day After Tomorrow, it’s a passion project – a piece of work so close to his heart he self-financed the film with friends and even stepped in as director when no one else would.

 

“Nobody wanted to do it,” he reveals, “and I was stubborn, and then I got it done.”

Irvine was unfazed that, according to an Instagram post from out screenwriter Jon Robin Baitz, “no studio would give a cent to (this movie). Including the studios he (Emmerich) has made a great deal of money for.”

With unconventional starring stints in films such as 2012’s Great Expectations and Beyond the Reach, the actor’s own projects have mostly been off the beaten path. “I’m on the side of anyone who thinks that we should have a bit more risk-taking with mainstream cinema,” says Irvine, who starred in Steven Spielberg’s emotional juggernaut War Horse. “It’s played far too safe.”

 

Regarding Stonewall, Emmerich was determined to make this movie, studios be damned. “I said, ‘I’m not going away from my kids; I’m standing up for them.’”

 

His “kids,” of course, include Irvine and Beauchamp, and the rest of the young, colorful core cast. But Emmerich’s Stonewall doesn’t seek to just tell its characters’ stories – the director, along with Baitz, had his eye on the bigger picture. His pursuit: to tell the story of LGBT youth everywhere.

 

“Roland was always talking about the homeless kids who we don’t know about today,” Irvine says. “This little group of fictional characters represents those who weren’t made famous by the movement.”

 

When Emmerich became involved with the Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Center, he made a disheartening discovery: 40 percent of LA homeless youth are LGBT. Personally struck, he dug deeper and realized that history was repeating itself.

 

“I was like, ‘Oh my god,’” he recalls. “At the same time, I read a lot about the Stonewall riots and found some kind of parallel – a group of homeless kids were very part of this riot too. The unsung heroes. I said, ‘Maybe I have to help.’”

 

Emmerich threw himself into the project, researching the riots, and also, along with producers, interviewing several Stonewall vets. Limitations manifested quickly. As Irvine states, “Finding actual survivors is very difficult. This was just before the AIDS crisis, so actually finding people who were there is tough. And first accounts do vary – I mean, it was a riot.”

 

Their varied play-by-plays hindered the filmmakers' fact-finding, a realization that led Emmerich to this conclusion: “Nobody knows what really happened that night.”

 

“You always have to take their stories with a grain of salt,” he says. “It’s like when there’s a traffic accident and you ask five witnesses and they tell you five different stories.”

 

When the final film was cut, those same sources were the first to screen it. Emmerich says they were “very, very surprised and complimentary about how right we got it.” And they knew this wasn't a documentary. They knew Emmerich’s vision: “I’m always saying I made a movie about the unsung heroes of Stonewall. I wanted to give those kids a voice.”

 

Because he found “the whole thing incredibly moving,” Irvine was on board immediately. “The script had me in pieces when I first read it,” he admits. Blown away by the writing and eager for the role, he hopped on a London-bound plane from Budapest, where he’d been filming another project, and showed up at Emmerich’s door, a scratch pad full of Stonewall notes in hand. “I really chased it,” Irvine says. “The script was by far the best thing I’d read in months. It wasn’t a difficult decision to go after it.”

 

But still, Irvine was nervous. Would they get it right? He knew the LGBT community’s expectations would be inevitably high, and he says, “There’s a responsibility involved to do a story justice.”

 

When shooting in NYC on Christopher Street (the mayhem originally unfolded there, in front of the Stonewall Inn) didn’t pan out as hoped – there were too many people, and not enough time – the crew used an indoor facility in Montreal, leaving Emmerich questioning its true-to-life authenticity.

 

“I panicked every day,” he remembers.

 

During the weeklong riot shoot, feelings were intense. Lots of reflection. Lots of commemorating. “That whole sequence was a very emotionally charged piece to shoot,” recalls Irvine, who throws the brick in the film, mirroring the famously charged real-life moment. “We’re shooting with a lot of actors and people on the set who have a very personal relationship to the story. Very meaningful to them.”

 

Others emotions (and, ahem, things) were present while Irvine shot his gay sex-scene debut with Jonathan Rhys Meyers, whose character represents one of the earliest gay rights groups in the U.S., the Mattachine Society, and crushes hard on Irvine’s new-kid-on-the-block character. Eventually they end up in bed. And with their clothes off.

 

“It was my first gay sex scene in a film, and hey, to be honest, if you’re gonna do it, Jonathan Rhys Myers is not a bad choice,” says Irvine, noting he’s only filmed one other sex scene, guy-on-girl, before. “I’m pretty green to all that. And Jonathan obviously did _The Tudors_, and so he said, ‘Just relax. I used to do, like, 10 of these a day.’ So he was very cool. He took my hand. Took me through it.”

 

“Jonathan totally took charge,” adds Emmerich.

 

As he reflects on directing the scene, the director chuckles, admitting to making special accommodations for Irvine (“I kept it really short for his relief”) because “oh my god was he nervous.”

Two men getting hot and heavy – Irvine just felt pressure to, you know, get it right. And with Stonewall too, of course. To prepare, Irvine powered through a stack of books and also listened to producer-conducted interviews.

 

“I didn’t know a huge amount about (Stonewall) before I read the script and did all my research,” he admits. “I was quite ashamed at how ignorant I was about the Stonewall Movement.”

 

Now the public will see the end-result, the culmination of a passionate director and his equally-as-passionate cast – and not for two minutes. For two hours. Emmerich expects more scrutiny, but shrugs it off.

 

“I don’t know what they will say,” he says. “They will probably find other stuff to criticize. I always say a movie’s a movie and it is what it is. We all are really super proud of it.”

Echoing the latter sentiment, Irvine is pleased to be a part of _Stonewall_, a project that he believes will put nearly a half-century of gradual progress – from the riots to the Supreme Court ruling on marriage equality – into perspective.

 

“I hope that the movie brings home how important that period of history was,” he says. “If we can bring that more to the forefront of people’s thoughts, then the film has done what it’s meant to do.”

 

 

 

 

 

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