The Center Honors its “Organization of the Year” and “Volunteers of the Year” at Second Annual Picnic-By-Design Event
- May 7, 2016 - 12:42pm
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The Gay and Lesbian Community Center of Southern Nevada (The Center) presented two of its annual coveted honors at its Picnic By Design event, Saturday, April 30 at World Market Center’s Pavilion #2.
Amid celebrating “Parasols in the Park,” this year’s Picnic By Design event served as the backdrop to the honoring of Three Square Food Bank as it’s “Organization of the Year” and presented its “Volunteers of the Year” award to Clair Koetitz and Lyndon Marquez of Las Vegas.
At 7 p.m., The Center recognized these community leaders for their contributions to the Southern Nevada LGBTQ community and its allies.
· Organization of the Year: Three Square
For nearly nine years, Three Square has been in the business of saving lives. To this day, they are the safety net for countless individuals in our community who have exhausted every other resource of support.
Three Square is Southern Nevada’s only food bank providing food assistance to the residents of Lincoln, Nye, Esmeralda and Clark Counties.
Three Square’s mission is to provide wholesome food to hungry people, while passionately pursuing a hunger-free community. They combine food banking (warehousing canned and boxed goods), food rescue (obtaining surplus or unused meats, bread, dairy and produce from hospitality and grocery outlets), and ready-to-eat meals to be the most complete food solution for Southern Nevada.
As a partner with The Center, and with a service network of nearly 1,300 community partners, which includes non-profit organizations, faith-based organizations, schools, and after school and feeding sites – they reach out to struggling individuals and families at risk of hunger. In 2015 alone, they distributed more than 38 million pounds of food, the equivalent of more than 31 million meals through their community partners.
They have persuaded many to join the fight to end hunger, including the gaming industry, local businesses, non-profit agencies, food distributors, higher education institutions, the Clark County School District, government entities, the media, and thousands of volunteers and donors.
· Volunteers of the Year: Clair Koetitz and Lyndon Marquez
“When you ask these folks to volunteer, you always get a ‘two-fer,’” said Michael Dimengo, CEO of The Center. “Where one is, the other is.” Clair Koetitz is a native of central Montana, retired from British Petroleum. Lyndon Marquez is from Midland, Texas and semi-retired. The story is that these two people from two different parts of the country met in a bar in Midland, Texas. Later, they partnered as a couple. And, in 2008 they married in Palm Springs.
They moved to Las Vegas in 2014 after Clair retired. One of the first things they did when they arrived here is that they both signed up to be volunteers at The Center.
They have become a vital part of an extensive network of community activists and volunteers committed to making a difference. Together they have joined others in supporting the efforts of such community partners as Las Vegas Pride, Golden Rainbow, and Human Rights Campaign.
They are two of the most unassuming individuals that you would ever meet. But, to us, they are two of the most important individuals we can call supporters of The Center. We call them the “dynamic duo.”
“Clair and Lyndon stand out among over 270 volunteers at The Center. I’m so impressed that our corps of volunteers is, once again, a vital and valuable lifeline for The Center. I’m similarly thrilled that The Center will be honoring two individuals and an organization that continually make a difference in our community,” said Dimengo. “It was a thrill that many from our community turned out to give voice to the honors that we want to bestow upon these generous individuals.”
New Youth Services Manager Foresees Evolution Within QVolution
- May 3, 2016 - 4:02am
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Robert Peraza was no stranger to working with young adults when he was recently promoted to the role of Youth Services Manager at The Center (in his previous role, he co-facil-itated the Vegas Mpowerment Project, which focused on 18 to 30-year-old men) but the QVolution youth program, with its younger 13-24 audience, comes with its own challenges and needs. Robert shares his observations of the program's past and present and his wishes for the future of QVolution.
Since you have recently assumed the role of Youth Services Manager, what are your observations on QVolution at the the time you took over?
It seemed that many of the youth were well-informed about social justice and proficient with the language to describe the institutions of oppression (sexism, racism, heterosexism, ageism. cissexism, classism, ableism, faithism, etc.). However, it seemed like there were very few opportunities for them to apply these skills in community-based organizations that work towards dismantling oppression. This is an ongoing concern and a signifi-cant inclusion issue, as sometimes as adults we can be very dismissive of the perspectives of the young. Part of activism and advocacy is self-advocacy and self-care. An alarming number of LGBTQ+ youth are insecurely housed, are unemployed/ underemployed, or are facing significant barriers to accessing healthcare systems (especially mental health and preventative care services). For them to be the most effective change agents they can be, our youth need to be able to thrive. There are many services available for the 13 to 24 year old demographic. It is often a matter of ensuring the providers are prepared to meet the needs of queer and gender diverse youth, and then making sure youth are aware of the services and prepared to access them.
What challenges, if any, do you find yourself facing with the program?
Likewise, what positives have you experienced in these past few months? It is so easy to fall into the trap of wanting to protect our youth so much that we inadvertently harm them by not partnering with organizations that can meet their needs better than us due to capacity constraints. Most youth-serving organizations genuinely want to assist youth, but have outdated training on gender, sexuality, orientation and identity. My responsibility is to educate leadership and find those staff at those organizations that can champion for LGBTQ cultural competency internally. A significant positive trend I am seeing is that our youth are becoming much more eager to partner with other programs internally at The Center (i.e. Women's Programming, Trans Programming, HIV Services, Senior Services), and we're seeing more youth becoming volunteers internally. Sometimes, we adults promulgate the myth of youth apathy by treating it as a bygone conclusion and not asking youth to partner or be involved.
Our Volunteer Coordinator, Nicol, has also helped me identify volun-teers with 'hidden' talents that lend themselves to activities and work-shops for our youth. For example, our volunteer Frank is a retired chef, and he is now teaching a monthly cooking class for our youth where they are learning a valuable life skill.
How has the program changed since you became Youth Services Manager, either through your own efforts or organically?
As The Center as a whole evolves from being primarily social/support group oriented to do-ing more direct human services work, so is QVolution. We are weaving more developmental programming in with our social activities, using a sandwich method: Youth enjoy some unstructured socialization with their peers on Tuesday and Thursday evenings from 6pm to 6:30pm, followed by educational programming (Comprehensive Sex Ed, Financial Literacy, or Social Justice Workshops, depending on the month) from 6:30pm-7:30pm. Then, after a 15-minute break, we usually have a group recreational social activity until 9 p.m., such as a game, discussion, arts and crafts session, movie/tv show viewing, etc. This approach "sandwiches" educational programming in between the opportunities for peer socialization and support that draw the youth to The Center. Youth also receive incentives for their participation and completion of the Sex Ed and Financial Literacy Programs.
What evolution do you hope will happen with the QVolution program as time goes on?
My aspiration for Qvolution is sustainability, in two areas:
1— A program model that is sustainable in staying consistent with community needs and, where appropriate, funding trends. It is imperative that we find ways to prepare and network our youth while educating employers on inclusive policies and practices for trans* and gender non-conforming youth. It is also absolutely essential that we address the HIV, mental health, and housing insecurity disparities facing LGBTQ+ youth.
2 — Sustainable relationship building with our youth.
How awful would it be for a youth to turn 25 and discover that there is no longer anything of value for them at The Center?
We are exploring ways to develop additional "Bridge" programming to keep young adults connected to The Center. "Bridge" programs work best with a built in overlap of age frames to allow a transition period between them trying out a new group and aging out of Qvolution.
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Will Gay Events Soon Be A Thing Of The Past?
- May 3, 2016 - 3:16am
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After spending the last 20 years or more volunteering and participating in GLBTQ events and organizations, I find myself wondering if events such as gay rodeos and gay pride will soon be extinct. Over the last 15 years, the GLBTQ community in the United States has experienced many milestone accomplishments resulting in liberation from oppression and new freedoms on many forefronts.
As the Southern Nevada Association of PRIDE, Inc. (SNAPI) and the International Gay Rodeo Association (IGRA) embark on a collaborative effort to bring tourists and residents a week-long extravaganza, I wonder what other creative ideas will help our events continue to be successful.
As the Chairman of the Board of Trustees for IGRA, I am exposed to every facet of our organization. In a recent conference, I posed the question to our members about reinventing ourselves. IGRA's contestant base has always been all-inclusive, which is what differentiates us from traditional rodeo; however, our straight contestant base continues to grow and being gay really is not a focal point anymore. We are just one big family who likes to get together, have a great time, and raise money for the less fortunate.
Over the years, the reason we were founded and the world has almost changed entirely. As an organization born in the heart of the AIDS crisis, our original mission was to raise monies for charities to help our ailing brothers and sisters from this often fatal epidemic. People rarely die from AIDS anymore and with the Affordable Care Act, almost everybody has access to healthcare.
According to a posting on gaypatriot. net in 2005, "...as gay people becoming increasingly visible, it's beginning to seem that 'Pride' is passé. Pride now seems to be merely the name of the gay and lesbian street festival where people gather to have a good time one spring weekend." The world has evolved but many organizations have not evolved with it and are struggling to survive and or maintain their identities. As the GLBTQ community becomes more and more mainstream and with online technology making it easier to meet new people and socialize without ever leaving home, people do not have to go to gay establishments or events to find people like themselves.
I never imagined going to any rodeo, let alone a gay one. Rodeo has since become my greatest passion and I would not trade my rodeo family for anything. If you have never been to a gay rodeo, your chance to see one of the best is less than six months away.
SNAPI and IGRA have an exciting week planned and we hope to see all of you at the Las Vegas PRIDE Parade in Downtown Las Vegas, the PRIDE Festival at Sunset Park, and the World Gay Rodeo Finals® at South Point Hotel & Casino. The festival and rodeo will both be held on Saturday and Sunday so everybody will have an opportunity to see a little of everything. For more information, cowboy up and visit us online at www.igra-wgrf.com and www.lasvegaspride.org!
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A Community That Works Together Thrives Together
- May 3, 2016 - 3:01am
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A few short weeks after I was appointed the CEO of The Center, I was visited by Gary Vrooman of the Lambda Business Association. Gary, a veteran in the LGBTQ community, spoke fondly of the many years that he had been involved in LGBTQ affairs. He was a pioneer of the movement in Southern California. He came to me with a suggestion. "It is time," he said, "that we all come together in a larger way to serve the LGBTQ community in Southern Nevada. It is time that we bring all LGBTQ organizations together." He spoke firsthand of other communities in Southern California promoting a wider and broader collaboration. The gay and lesbian community centers in those areas were the catalyst of that collaboration. They were the hub of that collaboration. I have never let go of Gary's vision for a better community here in Southern Nevada. In my perception, the LGBTQ community here is made up of a variety of diverse well-intentioned organizations, serving a variety of needs and providing a variety of services. But in many ways as I soon perceived, many of these organizations did their good work in silos. There was very little cross-communication. I did not see the type of community-building collaboration that Vrooman envisioned. That was a role of The Gay and Lesbian Community Center of Southern Nevada since our mission is to serve and advocate for all without exception. The life of a community ebbs and flows with the passage of time, and our LGBTQ community here in Southern Nevada is no exception. This community has deep roots in LGBTQ lives that existed far before any of us and existed in many other places. And, it has never been more profoundly affected since the beginning of our LGBTQ Movement — from Stonewall in 1969 to the present. Today, our community enjoys new freedoms and recognition that it has never enjoyed before. In addition to these new freedoms, our community enjoys a high degree of visibility. Given this extraordinary growth, you can't continue to grow as a community based on the paradigms and obsolete practices of the past. New growth requires new ways of acting. The growth of the LGBTQ community in Southern Nevada requires new modes of communication and collaboration if we are to serve our community best. So, on Wednesday, March 23, at my invitation to a wide variety of organizations, about 20 nonprofit leaders came together to discuss our health, our need for growth, and the general welfare of the LGBTQ community. Ultimately, we envisioned that a Community Council of some sort would come together on a periodic basis (perhaps every six months), to review the health, growth, and welfare of our community and to iron out issues that need to be addressed as a whole.
We believe the times call for creating such an organization to effect greater support of our community as well as collaboratively advance the causes and issues that would support our LGBTQ movement in Southern Nevada. We believe that a lot of harm can come about by mistrust and a lack of communication. It is time that we take a proactive role in supporting and advancing our community. The idea was widely and enthusiastically supported and accepted. There was not one voice of opposition raised. Instead, one organizational leader voiced the need for a community wide coalition to take place. And, as a first tool to mirror that collaboration, Cory Burgess of The Center demonstrated some new technology that was launched on April 1 at www.Igbtq.vegas. It is a community-wide calendar targeted to the entire LGBTQ population here in Las Vegas. It is a tool meant to assist in coordinating event calendars among organizations as well as to promote LGBTQ activities to our community and beyond. The Community Coalition is in its organizing and infancy phase. There was consensus and agreement that we would come together again to talk about our mission, vision, and values. The planning work is underway to bring additional organizations and membership onboard. If you are a 501(c)(3) organization that serves the LGBTQ community in some fashion, we invite your participation. We ask that your organization's leaders contact Logan Seven at Iseven@thecenterlv.org, or call him at The Center at 702-802-5420. We're trying to get as many organizational leaders involved as possible to be representative of the entire community. Please join us in making our Southern Nevada LGBTQ community healthier and stronger. Your thoughts and suggestions are appreciated!
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11th Annual HRC Gala at the Cosmopolitan Las Vegas May 14th
- May 3, 2016 - 2:35am
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Human Rights Campaign — Las Vegas is excited to announce our 11th annual Gala, held for the first time at The Cosmopolitan of Las Vegas. Dinner Committee Co-Chairs Kelly Smith, Matthew Howard, and Wendell Blaylock invite you to celebrate with us on Saturday, May 14th.
Central to this year's celebration is the City of Las Vegas achieving a perfect score of 100 in the Human Rights Campaign's Municipal Equality Index (MEI) for the first time since the MEI's creation!
The MEI examines the laws, policies, and services of municipalities and rates them on the basis of their inclusivity of LGBTQ people who live and work there.
As you've no doubt seen in the headlines recently, tremendous pushback is being experienced in states across our nation to recent gains we've made including last year's historical marriage victory. Never has it been more important to get out and vote to elect fair-minded officials.
HRC's recent work has also focused on passage of the Equality Act. The Equality Act would provide consistent and explicit anti-discrimination protections for LGBT people across key
areas of life, including employment, housing, credit, education, public spaces and services, federally funded programs, and jury service. While our protections are strong in Nevada, in 31 other states an LGBTQ couple can be married at 10 am but then fired from their jobs at noon and evicted from their home at 2 pm simply because they posted their wedding photos on Facebook.
Our honorees this year are two outstanding local leaders. Betsy Fretwell, Las Vegas City Manager, will receive the HRC Leadership Award, and John Nelson, Senior Vice President, AEG, will receive the HRC Equality Award. Both recipients are incredibly deserving of their award.
HRC looks forward to celebrating both our community's as well as our country's many equality achievements, as we look ahead to ensuring we are prepared and ready for our next challenges.
To become a sponsor, purchase a program book ad, buy a table, or donate an item to the auction, please email Gala@HRCLV.org. Individual tickets are available at hrc.org/lasvegasdinner.
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Family Acceptance Project at Community Counseling Center Strengthening Families and Individuals
- May 3, 2016 - 2:06am
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Family therapy is guided by the principle that all individuals within a family unit deserve love, support, and acceptance. Yet for many years since its inception in the early 1950s, family therapy oftentimes neglected to uphold these standards when dealing with individuals who identified as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or for those who questioned their sexual orientation or gender identity (LGBTQ). As a result of this, many injustices have been committed against LGBTQ-identified individuals and especially against the youth of that population who continue to face the highest incidences of behavioral health disparities when compared to their heterosexual-identified peers.
Negative social attitudes and discrimination related to an individual's LGBTQ identity are significant contributing factors to these disparities, and often result in institutional, interpersonal, and individual stressors that affect an individual's mental health, safety and personal well-being.
Due to these circumstances, LGBTQ youth can face a myriad of risks that include bullying, abuse, abandonment, neglect and the highest rate of homelessness and suicide among our general population.
The age of adolescence can come with many challenges, but for LGBTQ-identified adolescents, this age can be especially hard if they do not receive the love, understanding and support of their family members. Family response to an adolescent's sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression has a significant impact on the adolescent's emotional well-being.
Negative parental responses to sexual orientation or gender identity are sharply associated with a young person's psychological distress, as the already vulnerable state of the adolescent's well-being is put at a significantly greater risk.
In contrast, however, a parent-child relationship that is characterized by closeness and support will typically reflect greater stability and emotional health. Therefore, in order to help ensure the safety and well-being of LGBTQ youth, it is imperative that parents, mental health professionals and leaders of society work to increase understanding and acceptance of sexual and gender identity diversity.
Fortunately for this purpose, there is research being done that is helping to validate the importance of family support of LGBT youth thanks to the efforts of Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Caitlin Ryan of California State University, San Francisco.
For more than 40 years, Caitlin Ryan has worked to advance the practice and understanding of LGBTQ affirmative psychotherapy through her innovative work in developing the Family Acceptance Project.
The Family Acceptance Project is the first of its kind program that is designed as an LGBT affirmative family therapy model to help strengthen support and understanding within the family unit. The Family Acceptance Project
is a research, intervention, education, and policy initiative that focuses on preventing physical health and mental health risks and promote well-being for LGBTQ children and youth. The project also works to prevent suicide, homelessness, and HIV transmission, all within the context of promoting family unity.
The project uses a research-based, culturally-grounded approach to help strengthen ethnically, socially, and religiously diverse families and promote positive development and healthy futures for LGBT children and youth.
Community Counseling Center is proud to offer the Family Acceptance Project as our way of remaining steadfast in our commitment to strengthening families, individuals and upholding our support of the LGBTQ community of Southern Nevada.
Founded in 1990 by Ronald Lawrence, Community Counseling Center was formed to address the need for affordable mental health treatment. Since then, CCC has been providing quality substance abuse and mental health treatment to the southern Nevada population. We are dedicated to empowering our clients through education, prevention treatment, and advocacy. We promote the healthy functioning of individuals, families and society.
We are committed to providing culturally competent, affordable, and linguistically appropriate mental health care in a manner that is both compassionate and professional.
For more information about the Family Acceptance Project or other services of Community Counseling Center, please visit www.cccofsn.org or call 702-369-8700.
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Jane Lynch Interview
- May 1, 2016 - 6:25pm
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You better believe Jane Lynch can sing, and even if you don’t, “I think by the time you buy the ticket and come to the show, you hope I can sing! You’ve got your fingers crossed!” the Glee alum says of her touring act See Jane Sing, cracking her signature booming laugh.
Lynch is best known as iconic cheer coach Sue Sylvester, who tormented McKinley High for six seasons of Fox’s musical-dramedy behemoth Glee, which brimmed with all sorts of songs – just not many sung by Lynch herself. There was, of course, the playful homage to Madonna, when Lynch donned black lace for a frame-by-frame remake of the Queen’s video “Vogue.” But on Glee, the 55-year-old Emmy winner was better known for her tyrannical outbursts and hair taunts (poor Mr. Schuester) than she was for breaking into song.
Now, Lynch is making up for lost time as she headlines See Jane Sing, the entertainer’s touring cabaret that merges comedy with music and also features Kate Flannery of The Office and Tim Davis, the music director of Glee. After resolving a shoddy phone connection (“Where are you? Iraq covering the war?”), Lynch spoke at length about how her cabaret is not a “live sex show” like Liza’s, the one man she’d go straight for (and the one woman she’d stay gay for), and what’s so funny about three white people performing Nicki Minaj’s “Anaconda.”
Do you read reviews?
Ummm, good question! I have for this show, yes. The reason being is because I’m confident (laughs). I don’t think anybody could say anything about it, me or anybody in it that would actually stick. I don’t think they could say anything bad because I’m very confident in it; it’s such a blast that it stands alone as an experience for me without having anybody telling me it’s good or bad.
The reason I ask is because I read a New York Times review from 2014.
It was awesome, wasn’t it?
It was! They noted the show’s “sexual subtext.” I haven’t seen the show yet, but I’m curious about this “sexual subtext.”
Yeah, I am too! I’m curious about it too! (Laughs) I think what they might have been talking about is: Cheyenne Jackson, a wonderfully talented man who also happens to be gay, did “Something Stupid” that night with me. It was a special thing and he came up and we sang the song “Something Stupid,” and he talked about this weird kind of sexual tension between the two of us, because I think he’s so attractive and so handsome and I get very confused about my sexuality when I’m in the presence of Cheyenne Jackson.
When I’m watching Cheyenne Jackson I know that I am 100 percent homosexual, no question about it.
Isn’t that wonderful? I feel that way about Susan Sarandon, though she probably wouldn’t, you know, receive my affection… well, she’d receive it, but she might not return it.
What was your introduction to cabaret?
Well, let’s see, I’ve been in theater for a long time. I go see people perform, whether it’s at a hole in the wall or it’s a chick with a guitar. I usually don’t like big rock concerts – I don’t seek those out – so the combination of doing a comedy show with music has always been something I loved. I used to do sketch comedy a lot before I started doing television and film, and we always found a way to put a song in there. I did a “one person” show and I put the quotes there because there were three other people in there; it was all my material, but I had other people in it and we had six or seven songs in it and I love that. I don’t play a character so much, but Kate is my inappropriate drunken sidekick and we have a particular thing that I think is very entertaining and a lot of fun. She’s the glue of the evening for me and I’m so lucky to have her.
So your introduction to cabaret was not Liza’s Cabaret?
Oh, that – well, that’s a whole different thing. That was almost like a live sex show in Nazi Germany! It’s funny, I think we call (this show) a cabaret and it’s kind of stuck with the show because we did it at 54 Below (in New York). It’s where one person stands there with their band and people come to eat and listen, so when I say cabaret, it’s a live performance comedy concert. (Laughs)
Were you a funny kid?
Yeah, I was a funny kid and that was one thing I always knew I had. You know how you’re insecure as a kid? I was like, “Well, I know I’m funny.”
So you used that to your advantage?
Yeah, I guess so. You know, sometimes I felt like I was just trying to survive, as I think a lot of kids feel, having the big gay secret and all that stuff. I feel like when you’re a kid – for a lot of kids anyway – it’s about trying to survive and stay under the radar of humiliation so people don’t sniff you out.
Did humor help you survive, then, as a kid?
Oh yeah, absolutely.
How did you know you were funny and when did you realize you could make a living being funny?I never set out to do that. I love mining things for the comedy and, of course, that attracts people who love doing that as well. I had this one hilarious friend in high school, Christopher, who’s still a friend, and we did nothing but laugh together. The silliness of the social hierarchies – we would watch those and we laughed about those. We laughed about everything; nothing was too sacred. And we were Catholic kids too! We laughed about the priests and the congregation. So, if you’re allowing your passion to lead you, you end up making money at it, which is a great thing! (Laughs) But I didn’t set out to do it. I really just set out to laugh.
For a while there, you were performing in church basements.
Yeah – a lot of them! The churches would rent out their basement just to make some money and they didn’t care what kind of show you were doing. They didn’t show up; you just paid the 50 bucks and you set up the lights and that’s what ya did.
Is it true that, when you ended up at Second City, you were one of only two women picked to join the troupe?
Well, that wasn’t unique. There were only two women in every company. Now, it’s three. So it wasn’t a unique thing. Every company had two women and four guys and now it’s three and three. It wasn’t like I was only one of two women in the entire history of Second City. I know in some press release it says that, or something online says “she was chosen,” but no, it’s not a big deal. All the girls were one of two women. Now they’re one of three women.
Did it feel unfair to you that the men and women weren’t equal in number?
Nah, I didn’t have eyes for that stuff. I really didn’t. I didn’t see that stuff. I wasn’t available to feeling less than in that way. It just didn’t happen for me.
Assuming you’re taking a bus on tour, what kind of music do you listen to on the road?
Oh no, we’re not on a bus, man. Dude, we are flying. We do this first class – that’s why I’m not making any money on this tour! We fly. I said, “I’m not gonna do it if I have to sit in a bus,” so we fly and we all fly together, although Kate and I do fly first class and I make a joke about it in the show – another reason why I’m not making any money on this tour. But we all fly together and we hang out. We all eat together, laugh together, so I’m not listening to music or anything. I’m not a listener to music – I don’t listen to it very much. But Kate does, and Kate and I have very much the same taste. So, when we’re getting ready – we have a dressing room together – she plays Burt Bacharach songs. She has a terrific library of Burt Bacharach songs, not just by Burt Bacharach, but by all sorts of groups like The Carpenters and we sing at the top of our lungs and that’s our little pre-show warmup.
How did Nicki Minaj’s “Anaconda” end up on the setlist?
I had a burst of inspiration! I thought, “Wouldn’t it be funny if we did this?” First of all, I think it’s one of the most amazing, hilarious and artful videos I have ever seen. It is so funny. She is sooo self-deprecating, and she’s so kind of pinned this character – this rich girl who’s from the hood who has no class who all of a sudden is hanging out with drug dealers and having access to Balmain and nice clothes and a nice car. She just nails it. So, I thought, “Wouldn’t it be fucking hilarious if me, Kate and Tim” – I mean we look like the Heritage Singers out there! We’re so white, so immaculately white, and all three of us cannot dance at all but have all the confidence in the world in our moves.
Looking back on Glee: The show changed a lot of queer kids’ lives, and if I had been younger, it really would’ve influenced me in a major way.
Right; me too!
If a show like Glee had been on when you were a young gay person, how might your life have been different?
Ahh, it would’ve showed me that I wasn’t alone, and oh, just to know that you’re not alone. I really thought I had a mental disease that I was never gonna be able to get over, that I was cursed with it, that it was my fault.
Catholic guilt?
Yes, yeah! And I don’t know where I got this, because my parents weren’t Catholic in that way. We went to church but they weren’t like, “This is bad; this is good.” They just weren’t that way. They were very relaxed, not very good Catholics except that they went to church every Sunday. In saying that they weren’t very good Catholics – they were really good people! (Laughs)
I get it. They weren’t devout.
Exactly. So, I don’t know where I got that it was so horrible, maybe just by the fact that it was whispered about, if it was spoken about at all. And I didn’t see one person in my trajectory of life that had it! (Laughs) I was completely alone in it, so for me to have a Glee, and I’m sure I speak perhaps for you and a lot of other gay people growing up in the ’70s and the ’80s, a Glee would’ve been so wonderful – oh, how great that would’ve been.
Did you feel that, when Glee ended in 2015, it was time?
Yeah, sure. Absolutely. You know, these things can’t go on forever. We have this thing in American television that you have to be on for 10 years or something, and I think the British have it right. The British do 13 episodes and then take a holiday.
Does the cast keep in touch? Are you and Matthew Morrison still close?
I do talk to Matthew, yeah. And my niece was assistant to one of our executive producers and she’s friends with all those folks, so I see them and they come over to my house and we make dinner and sit out on the porch.
I was gonna say, “What’s a post-Glee party at Jane’s house like?”
(Laughs) Well, they don’t talk about Glee, that’s for sure! They’ve all kind of moved on, but they’re very good friends. It was a bonding experience for them – for all of them.
You have Mascots coming up for Netflix, and it’s directed by Christopher Guest, who also did Best in Show with you. What was it like teaming with Jennifer Coolidge again after playing her butch lesbian personal dog handler in Best in Show?
Well, I didn’t work with her; I haven’t even seen her. I worked with Ed Begley Jr., Mike Hitchcock and Parker Posey, so I didn’t even get to see her. I can’t wait to see her at the premiere.
What do you remember from working with Jennifer on Best in Show?
It was a first-time experience for both of us, and we were both very nervous. We were shooting it in Vancouver and we got very close. The days we weren’t working we would take walks through Stanley Park, and she is one of those people who can make me laugh so hard that I can’t catch my breath. She renders my mind inert. I can’t do anything but hold whatever spot I’m at and just double over and try to catch my breath.
Has there ever been a role you regretted not taking?
I can’t even think of one. I’m so in the moment, man. I don’t think about that stuff. I can’t even remember turning something down and I can’t even remember – I don’t remember most things. (Laughs)
Man arrested at The Center in downtown Las Vegas
- May 1, 2016 - 5:49pm
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The Gay and Lesbian Community Center of Southern Nevada (The Center) got a scare late on April 15 when one person was arrested after an employee triggered a panic alarm.
Officers were called down after the alarm was activated around 8:45pm, this according to Metropolitan Police Department Lt. Charles Jenkins. An employee had activated the alarm after witnessing a fight between a man and two security guards.
Michael Domingo, CEO of The Center, said an individual who “has been troublesome before and had been trespassed from the property” went into the building and became confrontational, reports the Las Vegas Review-Journal.
Domingo claims it was at this point that one security guard asked the individual to leave, followed by a second guard who made the same request. According to Domingo, that’s when the man “turned on the security guards” and the employee activated the alarm.
Police took the man into custody and he was charged with a misdemeanor battery. Jenkins confirmed that a medic responded, although the two security guards were not injured.
The Center is located in downtown Las Vegas at 401 S Maryland Parkway, near the intersection of Lewis Avenue.
KING TITUSS
- May 1, 2016 - 4:44pm
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The Internet loves a good penis pun.
One of 2015’s biggest breakout stars, Tituss Burgess, discovered this fact last year, when the Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt actor’s already-escalating showbiz profile reached new heights thanks to a song he sang called “Peeno Noir: An Ode to Black Penis.”
So Burgess can retire now, right?
“Oh no, I’m just getting started,” says Burgess, who originated “Sebastian the Crab” in the musical version of The Little Mermaid. “There are so many races to love on!”
Not to mention, there’s also the second – and hopefully third, fourth and eighth – season of Netflix’s Unbreakable. The 37-year-old plays Titus (a variation on his real name, with just one “s”), an aspiring and very gay Broadway performer who lives with an unworldly doomsday-cult survivor named Kimmy (Ellie Kemper).
But back to that penis song…
What was it like seeing “Peeno Noir” take off the way it did? I don’t know that I gave it as much thought or attention as attention was paid to it, and that’d be the honest truth. I mean, obviously I paid attention because I launched my own line of Pinot Noir (called “Pinot by Tituss”), but it was lovely to know that people thought it was funny and had taken ownership of it, but it’s become something other than what it initially was. People recite those words and tell me that their office breaks out into it just as release – no one’s thinking about what it actually meant – so it’s taken on a life of its own separate from the show. But it’s awesome and I love it, and I hope they find something as equally exciting and satisfying about this season as they did last season.
We get to learn more about Titus’s “straight life” this season. Who were you during your straight life? Gay! (Laughs) Honestly, I had a formal conversation with my mom when I was 19, but I don’t know that I was ever in the closet, if I’m being perfectly honest. I never had the “I have to tell the world” mindset.
How much of the character is you? I’m gonna be honest with you: very little. We share a similar wicked sense of humor and we both, of course, love musical theater and Diana Ross, but my energy lives a lot lower to the ground than his does and I don’t yearn for the spotlight the way he does. The fact is, I really, really enjoy my alone time, so I don’t crave that the way my character does. In fact, by the time we’re done filming the season, I’m quite exhausted. He requires such a high level of vibration, and so by the time it’s done, I’m happy to hang him up for a few months.
Titus’s breakthrough moment this season involves him in geisha garb. I’m just waiting to hear what the critics have to say about that. Oooh lord. When I read that script I thought, “Jesus. Last year it was the wolf (Jacqueline, who is “American Indian,” unleashed a primal howl during the finale); this year it’s gonna be the geisha.”
How prepared are you for any backlash? Oh, I’m prepared. I’ve had six months to prep for the harsh criticism. The thing about (creators) Tina (Fey) and Robert (Carlock) is, they don’t shy away from the current climate of the country, and while on a surface level it might seem like they’re giving these silly stereotypes a platform, I think it’s just sort of exacerbating what we have become so sensitive to. But if it’s a headline, my friend, it is fair game.
Tina and Robert are two of the most informed people I’ve ever met, and sometimes we get scripts and I think, “Surely this has not happened somewhere,” or, “Surely this is something that they’ve made up.” So I’ll get on the Internet and there it is. The transracial storyline – people feeling as though as they remember past lives – when I read these headlines, it’s funny because it’s so unbelievable. So yeah, it’s a fine line, but they treat it with great sensitivity and great class – and it is, after all, a comedy.
Are there ever times where you’re like, “Tina, no, no – too far.” Yeah – the geisha episode! I didn’t wanna do it.
What were you hesitant about? I’m in white face, man! I didn’t want anyone to think I was disrespecting a culture. But what we did was make certain that, while it’s funny, he’s extremely sincere about what has happened to him. He’s for real, and as long as he’s for real in his interpretation and his acknowledgement of his past lives then it’s not offensive. There’s something oddly touching about the end of that episode, and I think it also serves a greater storyline, which is, Titus has finally taken the initiative to take control of his career. No one else is giving him a job, so he wrote one for himself, so that is what’s smart about it.
What do you think when people call Titus a stereotype? I think they didn’t see the same show that I filmed. Titus is more everyman than Jacqueline, Kimmy or Lillian. He’s broke, he can’t afford to pay his rent, he’s chasing this career that has not materialized, he has trouble in relationships, at least last season, and he is not a size 32 in the waist. He gets rejected when he attempts to do something good with his life, even if it’s one of his bizarre “this is gonna make me famous” excursions. Most Americans are living lives unfulfilled. Most Americans don’t have the money that Jacqueline has. Most Americans, especially black people, don’t get away with committing murder like Lillian did. So they’re not paying attention, that’s what I think.
Your performance of Diana Ross’s “Believe in Yourself” while accepting the Human Rights Campaign’s Visibility Award late last year was so moving. Why is being out and visible important to you? Honey, how much time do you have? (Laughs) I know what dark places feel like and I know what the absence of love and community feels like, and if I had a me when I was growing up to see, I would have perhaps been familiar to you guys a lot sooner than two years ago. For that reason, I don’t want any young person or any old person to not acknowledge who they came into the world being through all of their past lives. This current one that you’re experiencing is one that should be fully realized – otherwise, you are the walking dead and what is the point?
The second season of Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt was released April 15th on Netflix).
Nick Jonas Interview - Live in Las Vegas August 13th
- May 1, 2016 - 4:32pm
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Boys do Nick Jonas sometimes, but it’s mostly girls.
They dress up as the pop star, emulating his rousing onstage persona and donning denim that looks practically painted on. Yes, if we needed further proof about why the 23-year-old former Jonas Brothers is a celebrated beacon in the LGBT community, for his abs and for his advocacy – for standing up against the North Carolina “bathroom bill” by canceling two upcoming gigs there – look to the drag kings. Those kings are sure to find even more fodder for their glitzy acts on Last Year Was Complicated, Jonas’ second solo album.
In our new interview, Jonas talked candidly about last year – his year of “growth.” And although he was congested – yes, even the perfection that is Nick Jonas deals with allergies that are “terrible” this time of year – he was more than happy to dish on LGBT rights, the night he and brother Joe ended up at a West Hollywood gay bar, and touching his… face.
I’ve never asked a guy this question – I’m always asking female artists who are being impersonated by men – but there are Nick Jonas drag kings, so we must talk about this.
(Laughs)
I know, right? What’s it like to know that lesbians are dressing up in Nick Jonas drag? Also, what tips do you have for a Nick drag king who wants to perfect their Nick Jonas drag act? Well, it’s an honor, you know, first of all. I feel very honored! (Laughs) I think the tips would be, make sure the jeans are fairly tight – not too tight, but tight enough. And I do a lot of face touching, I’ve noticed, so maybe incorporate that into the act and it’ll all work.
When do you touch your face the most? When I’m singing, when I’m talking. It’s kind of a strange thing I do.
I spoke to your brother Joe recently and he mentioned getting down at the gay clubs with you. What’s a night with you and Joe like at the gay club? It was very fun! We were out at The Abbey in LA.
Good place, good drinks. Good drinks! And it was just a good environment overall. People were very welcoming and we had a good time and we hung out and had a couple of drinks. And they played our music too, which is always nice when you’re at a club. The DJ was being friendly. (Laughs)
Was this a promo obligation? No, it’s just where we ended up. It wasn’t promo at all.
Who gets hit on more: you or Joe? We were kind of isolated, in our own sections off to the side, so we weren’t able to interact that much, but I’m not sure. He was also with his girlfriend at the time, so maybe he was getting less attention.
What would you say to straight guys who might not feel as comfortable going to a gay club as you are? In the same way I feel like there’s no difference with my fans, gay or straight, the same thing applies to the club. And you can have a good time anywhere you go if you just choose to have a good time. I think it’s a unique environment to be in – and it’s a fun place and they play great music, (laughs) and as long as you’re willing to go in and have fun, I think it’s all good.
Some straight guys worry they might be the object of some man’s affection. Insecurity drives a lot of really poor decision-making. I think as long as you can be confident and comfortable in your own skin and who you are then you don’t really have to be worried about that.
When did you become comfortable in your own skin? It’s a continual thing, continual growth. Just like everybody else, there are some days when I don’t feel great in my skin. I do my best to grow. But I think when I came into my body, you know, and started building muscle and realizing that in a lot of ways physically I had become a man, that’s when I became comfortable and confident. Getting into fitness was helpful.
When did being accepting and loving to the LGBT community really become important to you? Was there a person or a moment that really drove you to become the advocate that you are? It was my early Broadway days and being kind of immersed in the community at an early age and really seeing that there was no difference. The key was accepting and loving people from all different walks of life. It was just a priority at an early age and also because my parents were really open and loving and laid it out for us that there was no difference. I think that was a healthy environment to be in at an early age.
What do you make of speculation that you are gay? I think people are gonna make their assumptions regardless, you know? And I’m a heterosexual male who’s playing two gay characters on TV shows and really doing my best to be the most accepting and loving person I can be because I think that’s the way we all should be. So, if people have opinions or thoughts on my sexuality, that’s on them. I know who I am and I’m comfortable with who I am.
You stepped in for Iggy Azalea last year and headlined Pittsburgh Pride when she canceled her headlining performance after LGBT groups pulled out in protest of her past homophobic tweets. What was it like playing your first Pride event? It was a lot of fun! I think there was a real warmth because of the fact that I kind of jumped in last minute and covered, so I think people were really pumped about that. The show itself was great. It was a lot of LGBT community people and it was good. They were a great crowd. And I’ll tell you what, I think it was one of my favorite shows of last year. There’s something to be said about surprising people!
Last year seemed to be pretty darn good for you, but your new album, Last Year Was Complicated, begs to differ. What was the biggest hurdle you had to overcome last year? It was a real year of growth, going from being in a group with my brothers for years to traveling alone, being alone all the time – it was intense at first. Then, on top of that, the breakup I had last year was, well, complicated (laughs), it was tricky. It required me to really dig in deep and lay out all my thoughts and feelings in my music, which, for me, is the best outlet possible.
Beyoncé is obviously experiencing this with her new surprise album Lemonade, but I wonder, for you, how do you feel when you release a body of work and the public dissects it and relates it back to your personal life? I can’t comment for Beyoncé or speak for her, but as an artist I think it’s so important to lay your heart and feelings out in your music, and if you want to be an open book in that way, it’s a great outlet to be able to do it. For me, I’m just thrilled to have that outlet to pour my heart into because it’s a good way to process my feelings and emotions.
Do you keep the gay community in mind when you make music? I think you have to create and have it be authentically you and kind of worry about what people are going to think afterwards, or who might be listening. That’s what I’ve tried to do: tell the stories the best way I can first, (so they) are the most honest. If I have to go back and edit afterwards, I will, but for the most part what I write in that room that day is what ends up on the record.
Outside of Scream Queen and Kingdom, do you see more gay roles in your future? I think it’s about the material. If something comes up and has a great script and a great creative team, I would definitely do it. It’s all about the script though. That, for me, is the focus.
When I talked to Joe he said he was working on music with you. He also alluded to the possibility of there being a Jonas Brothers reunion down the line, saying, “It could easily happen.” What’s the status on the new music? And how do you feel about a Jonas reunion? Well, he and I live together now. We just moved in together actually. So yeah, we have a music room in the house and we’re always writing, whether it’s for us, for (his band) DNCE, for my stuff, or just writing for other people. I’m definitely trying to always create. But I’m not sure about a Jonas Brothers reunion. I think that we’re all very happy doing our own thing. And our oldest brother, Kevin, is expecting another baby with his wife, so it’s exciting times for everybody.
When might we hear some of the music you’ve been making with Joe? It’s gotta be right first, so if we get something done and it ends up on a project, that’d be great. But I’m not sure about anything coming out very soon – it’s gonna be a little while.
Following in the footsteps of some defiant tour cancellations in North Carolina to protest the state’s “bathroom bill,” you and your tour-mate Demi Lovato also took a stand, nixing both of your dates in the state. Why did you decide to cancel your shows there instead of, say, going the route that Cyndi Lauper did, which was to keep the show but donate the proceeds to LGBT causes? It’s an incredibly tough situation overall and one that we thought really hard about. Speaking with Demi and the whole team, the thought was, we needed to do our best to take a strong stand, and although it’s difficult and it’s gonna be a disappointment to our fans who were looking forward to the shows, we feel that it’s the right thing to do. Sometimes you gotta go with your gut feeling and do your best to help a situation. Hopefully our fans understand and stand with us. We’re trying to do our humble part. A change would be good.
You can see Nick Jonas and Demi Lovato together live in Las Vegas inside the Garden Arena at the MGM Grand Hotel & Casino on Saturday, August 13th at 7 pm. Purchase tickets at NickJonas.com/events
Hopefully he will do a surprise Vegas gay club visit! *wink* *wink*
Nick’s second solo album, Last Year Was Complicated, comes out on June 10th.