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THE CENTER’S NEW CEO: MICHAEL DIMENGO

  • October 24, 2014 - 12:08pm

Only a year after hiring a new CEO the Center has already replaced Bob Elkins with a new CEO. Tom Kovach, the interim CEO, hopes Michael Dimengo, the newly elected board member will use his extensive non-profit experience to help the Center expand its programming and grow its community reach.

Gay Vegas en Español

  • October 24, 2014 - 11:52am

Hola Amigos, esperamos que su celebración de Halloween haya sido estupenda! Octubre fué un mes increíble y lleno de eventos, en especial los del “Día para salir del closet.” El Viernes 10 de Octubre celebramos en FreeZone con Diva Toxxx, quién tiró la casa por la ventana con su excelente presentación y el Sábado 11 de Octubre celebramos en el evento de Las Vegas Pride en donde se hizo historia cuando gays y lesbianas se unieron en matrimonio en el escenario a solo días de la aprobación del matrimonio gay en Nevada. Finalmente! También, si se perdieron la estupenda presentación de Paloma Makarycomo Selena interpretando “Como La Flor” y “Bidi Bidi Bom Bom”, espero puedan encontrar un video en YouTube! - en otras palabras - Estuvo de película!

En otras noticias, Toño Estrada, nuestro representante de la comunidad latina de la división de extensión de Los Angeles a Las Vegas, fué ganador del premio “Más Popular en la Comunidad LGBT” en los LGBT Hero Awards. Felicitaciones Toño! Estamos super orgullosos.

También, estaremos en los Latin Grammy el Jueves 20 de Noviembre en el MGM Grand aquí en Las Vegas. El evento empezará a las 5pm y será transmitido a las 8pm! Acompañanos! Puedes encontrar tus tickets en mgmgrand.com/entertainment or ticketmaster.com - compra tus tickets a tiempo, de seguro se venderán rapido!

LOVE & MARRIAGE: MARRIAGE EQUALITY IN NEVADA

  • October 24, 2014 - 11:43am

JES CUMPIAN & HALLEY CLARK

Jes & Halley got married at National Coming Out Day organized by Las Vegas Pride this past October 11th, just days after gay marriage was legalized in Nevada.

How did you meet?

Halley and I met online. We had communicated casually for about 4 months. It was just friendly banter. It’s pretty astonishing how few people are able to carry on conversation nowadays, so it was quite refreshing being able to actually exchange messages beyond basic pleasantries. After we met in person, we just clicked!

Who proposed to who and where?

We had discussed getting married but wanted it to be legal where we lived and going to another state just didn’t feel right, plus Halley was born and raised here. I knew we had the ruling coming at any moment and that anything was possible. We just made a trip to Colorado the weekend of October 3, so right before our trip, I went and bought our rings. I knew I wanted to “pop the question” someplace special, so on October 5, at the top of Pikes Peak, CO, at 14,110ft, I proposed. It wasn’t boisterous or a down-on-my-knee affair, but I did hold Halley’s hand and tell him I wanted to make it official. I honestly had no idea that we would be able to get married just one week later!

Why is Marriage important to you?

Marriage is important to us for the same reasons it is to any other couple. We want the same rights, responsibilities, and protections afforded to married couples. Personally, I didn’t think marriage was an option as a gay man and I had resigned myself to believing that it wasn’t for me. After meeting Halley, and with all the progress our country has made, I’m quite happy that I was mistaken!

 

KELVIN ATKINSON & SHERWOOD "WOODY" ATKINSON

Nevada state Senator Kelvin Atkison & Woody Atkinson wed shortly after gay couples began receiving marriage licenses outside of the Marriage License Bureau by district court judge Nancy Allf.

How did you meet?

Woody and I met in Los Angeles at a mutual friend’s birthday part in May of 2008.

Who proposed to who and where?

I proposed to him. First on the phone after the court ruling last week then again in public later that night at the Celebration at The Center in front of everyone. It went viral.

Why is Marriage important to you?

It is because everyone should have the right to marry who they fall in love with, without the judgment or approval of others. Woody and I have been together for over 6 years and we should be able to cement our love by marrying just like any other loving couple.

 

JACKY SWALLIA MEGAN SWALLIA

Jacky and Megan got married at the National Coming Out Day organized by Las Vegas Pride this past October 11th, just days after gay marriage was legalized in Nevada.

How did you meet?

We met in summer school in 1996. I was credit deficient and Megan was trying to get ahead. I sat in front of her and she stared at the back of my head wondering for the longest time if I was a boy or girl (I had pretty short hair back then). One day at break I turned around and to make conversation, I asked her about a picture of her cat she was using as a bookmark. We started talking and realized we had a lot of common interests and became friends. After summer school we really didn’t see each other much since we went to different schools, but we kept in contact. We tried dating for a while the next year but we both needed to grow up and work out some issues so we split. We didn’t start speaking again until 2002. We built our friendship back again and moved in together the next year.

Who proposed to who and where?

Hmmm...see, there was no really fancy proposal or anything like that. We just had a conversation one day about if it was ever legal for us to get married, would we? And we agreed that we would. Yeah, nothing special. Just practical.

Why is Marriage important to you?

In the grand scheme, it’s about equality for everyone. But on a personal level, it is important to us because we are expecting twins and they will now be born with married mothers. This solves problems like both of us being able to sign the birth certificates and being recognized as legal guardians. Also, now I don’t have to worry that I’m not going to be allowed in the hospital when Megan gives birth or that her parents would get to make decisions if something happens to her. I should be the one making decisions and before that wasn’t a guarantee. Also, I can now have my health insurance taken out pre-tax. I never could before because I had Megan as a dependent and domestic partners don’t qualify for section 109 pre-tax deductions. It really makes our family complete now, in so many ways.

Getting to the Core Of Nick Jonas

  • October 24, 2014 - 10:58am

When you think of Nick Jonas – and let’s face it, you’ve been thinking a lot about him lately – a few things come to mind: the straight-edged Jonas Brothers. Former flames Miley Cyrus and Selena Gomez. His abs.

Per his handlers, two of those topics were off-limits during my chat with Nick, but so what. Ever since he posted a salacious Instagram pic of his fit, V-cut torso in 2013, it’s been ab this, ab that. The 22-year-old BFF to the gay community is also releasing a self-titled, post-Jonas Brothers album, which he chatted about during our interview. You know, in addition to his abs.

You said recently that part of the reason you’re so adamant about reaching out to the gay community is because you don’t feel like the Jonas Brothers did enough of it before. So, is this gay media blitz your way of making up for lost time?

(Laughs) Maybe! I think my brothers and I did what we could, but at that time, in our career and during that moment in our lives, it was pretty crazy. We had so much going on that we were, I think, just trying to stay on top of everything. I’ve had a little time prior to the promotion (of this album) to establish exactly what I want to say, who I wanna talk to and the steps I wanna take.

Did the lack of gay media have anything to do with your handlers? Were people telling you not to do gay press to maintain your conservative Disney image?

To be honest, I don’t think it was that. I think if we had wanted to make an effort there it wouldn’t have been an issue. It was important and it is important to me, and it’s also important to me as I transition into acting.

I’m on a show called Kingdom where my character goes on a pretty interesting journey. I can’t give anything away – no spoilers – but it’s been fun as an actor to be willing to go to that place. I love playing this role that I play, and I’m excited for the audience to go on this journey with me.

Considering you’ve revealed there’s a nude scene, we are also excited to go on this journey with you. What’s it like shooting a nude scene?

It’s pretty bizarre. The way you have to go into it… it’s not real. As actors, it’s our job to tell these stories, and with a show like Kingdom, you go the extra mile and push the boundaries and keep it very real. So, in that moment, it’s just about telling the story the best way you can while trying to be honest. As far as any of the physicality goes – or nudity or sex scenes – it’s just about knowing that it isn’t real.

Wait, your sex scene is not real?

(Laughs) It’s not.

Why is it so important for you to reach out to the gays for your solo debut?

When I was setting up this record and meeting with the team about it, I told them that I really wanted to make an effort to embrace that part of my audience. I’ve known for a long time that it is a great part of the audience, and I just never felt like we made all the effort we could to embrace them. It’s been really fun and really incredible.

When did you know the gay community was embracing you?

I think it was a combination of things. I did theater prior to recording music, and so at a very young age I made a lot of really close gay friends. When I started recording music, and my brothers and I started recording and touring, we saw pretty quickly – this was back in 2005/2006 – that this was a big part of our audience. As the years went on, and as I went back into theater, I made the (gay community) a priority. It’s about embracing all sides.

You’re currently on tour, and considering how much attention you’ve given the gays lately, how gay are the audiences that come out to see you?

It’s been pretty awesome to look out and see a difference in the crowd. It’s not drastic by any means; it was kind of there prior, but there’s definitely more of them embracing this next chapter in my life and my music. All that, I can feel. Looking out, there is probably a handful more gay fans out there, which is incredible.

So, like, if you had to rate the gayness of a Nick Jonas show, where would it fall on the Kinsey Scale, 1 being straight and 6 being totally gay?

(Laughs) I don’t know if I can answer that just yet. I think I need to let it continue to evolve. It’s in the early stages here. Let’s see where we get in the next couple of months and then we’ll make that call.

You have a point. Considering you just performed in San Francisco, the number would be skewed.

(Laughs) Exactly!

Because your abs are now famous as well, do you feel obligated to show them at every show?

(Laughs) Umm, no. I haven’t showed them at any of my shows. That was more so when I was in New York celebrating the release of the new music and I went to a couple of gay clubs and… (Laughs) They kind of made me do it, so I had to! But as far as my shows go, I keep it fully clothed.

I saw the video online, Nick. I didn’t see anyone taking your shirt off for you.

It was a few drinks in at that point. All bets were off.

When you show up at a gay club like the ones in New York, do guys hit on you? Do they flirt? And how do you approach a situation like that?

Yeah, it’s interesting. Whether it comes from people who are aware of me and my personal life, or the person who was on the microphone saying it, there’s a general awareness that I am straight but totally embracing of the gay community. I love my gay fans, so it was just a lot of love, and there wasn’t a whole lot of hitting on me and flirting. A little bit, which was actually kind of fun. (Laughs) It was a pretty new environment for me, so I was just trying to take it all in and have a good time.

What do you make of naysayers who say you’re just using your body to bait the gay community?

Everyone’s entitled to their own opinion. I think it’s unfortunate that some people have to find a negative in every situation. Clearly my heart is in the right place, and more than anything, if they just looked at my life and my gay friends and the authentic nature of where my heart is, they’d just see that they’re kind of ignorant.

The nature of where we are today is, we’re in a time where we need to make strides and step forward as a society and embrace all people from all different walks of life. When you’re trying to make a bold statement like that, some people aren’t gonna fall in line with that. And that’s OK. You gotta stay on your own path.

You’ve recently opened up about your religious journey and how you’ve taken off your “purity ring.” Did the gay people in your life have anything to do with reexamining your religion? Have you always been this accepting of homosexuality?

That’s a good question. I always have been. I think that’s a testament to growing up in the theater and from an early age being surrounded by (gay people), and my parents – although my dad was a pastor – were very open-minded and said the same thing that I say, “We have to love people from all walks of life, and that’s the key.” It was nice to come from that.

Definitely my opinion and my feelings on faith and religion, specifically, have evolved over time just having seen some of the judgments that other people show toward the lesbian and gay community. It really burdens my heart, and it saddens me in a huge way because I feel like it’s not our place to judge at all. Some of the most loving, caring relationships that I’ve ever seen are between my gay friends, and some of my straight friends’ relationships are the worst examples of what love is.

With your parents being as open-minded as they are, were there gay people in your life even before you pursued theater?

There were. My parents were always good about having an open mind toward everyone. Like I said, although church and religion were a cornerstone for us in a lot of ways, they (my parents) were open, and especially after we left the church and had to develop our own faith is when my views and opinions started to take shape.

Would you still consider yourself Christian?

I say now that I have a relationship with God and that it’s my own relationship with God. It’s one of those things that I try to keep most personal because I think that’s the healthiest way I’ve learned to deal with it. I keep it as that, and I know that I love God and he loves me.

Nick Jonas "Jealous" Music Video

 

Nick Jonas Gay Club Tour

 

Nick Jonas plays Guess The Bulge featuring Harry Styles, Justin Bieber, Zac Efron and more

Why the Blue Moon Resort Closed

  • October 24, 2014 - 10:42am

After 12 years of business the Blue Moon Resort has suddenly closed its doors. Vegas’ famed and only gay hotel closed its doors on October 15th with very little warning. The Owner John Hessling who was leasing the building said the news came unexpectedly, reminding Gay Vegas that he did not own the building and had been leasing it. John said the building is in the finalizing stages of a purchase from his current landlord. He did not know who had initiated the purchase of the building but that the buyers were not interested in keeping the Blue Moon Resort as a tenant. Hessling speculates that the plans of the Neon Project Highway which had changed several times at one point being planned directly through the Blue Moon resort and later being designed around it made the lot more attractive to buyers. He says he thinks by the amount of money that was spent on the property that the buyer was not interested in the building but rather the lot and believes that some other lots may have been purchased as well for a larger scaled project. Will a new gay high rise condo take the place of our beloved Blue Moon Resort? Will it be clothing optional? Probably not, but we will always remember the Blue Moon Resort as one of the best Gay Hotels in the U.S. because of an extremely passionate, dedicated and talented marketing guru, Mr. John Hessling.

“It has been a long and wonderful 12 year run. I’ve met some fantastic people along the way and had many wonderfully supportive customers. And for that I am eternally grateful. Your happiness was truly my happiness.” - John Hessling

 

The Sweet Dreams of Annie Lennox

  • October 24, 2014 - 10:35am

They don't make hearts bigger than the one beating inside of Annie Lennox.

Despite the icon’s legendary recording career, dating back to the late ’70s, music has taken a backseat to another passion: people. While still dedicated to philanthropic work focused on causes like HIV/AIDS and global peace, the singer-songwriter returns with her first disc in four years, a covers album called Nostalgia

On the heels of its release, Lennox called from London for a frank conversation about loathing her “gender bender” label, the reframing of feminism (Beyoncé is “feminist lite,” she says) and being uneasy with the superficiality of the music business. 

 

During a recent Q&A in London, you mentioned that you stopped writing because, and I quote you, “I’m too happy.” 

I said a lot of things that night! To be honest, looking back on being creative and what that was about and where the impulse lies to express yourself – there was a lot of darkness in my life. For everyone, we have our own darkness and our light, and I even wrote about that. 

You know, I’ve been through a lot. It’s coming up on my sixth decade now, and I have less of the impulse to express myself in that way. I feel as if I express myself very well in other ways. I branched out, you know? Since I started campaigning a decade ago, I’ve got this need to voice myself and place myself into a certain kind of activism. I find that so inspiring and such a great thing to do, but for the last year I’ve also decided, “OK, I wanna make some music and that is Nostalgia.” So, I haven’t been able to be as proactive (philanthropically) this year as I normally am. I’m one of those people who, when I do something, I have to do it all the way. 

 

You mention “the darkness,” something you seem to have been attracted to for a good part of your musical career, and also one of the reasons people are drawn to you. 

I don’t know if I’m attracted to darkness. I couldn’t say “attracted.” I pick up on that because it is interesting, isn’t it? Maybe we are drawn to it. Maybe it’s already a prerequisite within ourselves. I mean, humans have this capacity to be so joyful and so full of love, and sweet and light and all of those innocent things – like when you see children, you see how we are before we become adolescents, and we’re different. 

I see children every day because they pass my house as they go to play in the park – 6 year olds who are skipping, and they're dancing and they’re singing and they’re playing together. If you saw adults doing that, you’d think they were mad – you’d think they were completely bonkers! That joy should be our inheritance, but a lot of that gets hammered out of us, I think, because the world is a fucking dark place – excuse my French – but it truly, truly is. But there’s also beauty in it. 

 

It sounds like you’ve found a lot of beauty in your own life lately. Why not a write a joyous album?

(Laughs) Ehh. It’s funny; it’s really strange. You’re talking about this thing called the “muse” in a way. There’s something called the muse that people refer to – writers and poets – and I don’t know what that is. It’s kind of an urge, an itch you have to scratch, and right now I’m very inspired – truly inspired – and this album for me has been an absolute pleasure and a real joy. I love the songs. I love the music. I love translating them into my own kind of arrangements and sounds. 

Recently, when we went to LA, I made nine really amazing performance videos with this wonderful filmmaker, Natalie Johns, and I’m so proud of what Natalie has done with me collaboratively. I think it’s beautiful, and I’m a bit like, “Wow, getting the chance to still do this, it’s great.” Like I said, I struggle a lot. And life – it just never stops being interesting in a way. 

 

While we’re talking about life and Nostalgia, what about your own life makes you feel nostalgic? 

If I look back at my own life, it goes right back to the ’50s. I was 6 years old when it turned into 1960, you see, so I still have very strong memories of my childhood in Scotland – my upbringing, how that was. There was a lot of hardship, and my background – I don’t come from a silver spoon. It was never handed to me. It was working class, and you had to work damn hard; I’m talking about my parents and their grandparents before them.

I remember a time when there were hardly any motor cars on the road. I remember the man coming to light the gas lights on the street. Stuff like this – it’s really nostalgic. I don’t want to go back, obviously. Anyway, one can’t. There is no turning back, but sometimes I just kind of yearn for a gentler time. I say it was “gentler,” but looking back through Nostalgia, through this American Songbook, I also understand that going back to the ’30s in the United States and in so many parts of the world – this is pre-civil rights, before the movement had really got up and running. It’s like the voice of the civil rights movement was not being really acknowledged and the platform wasn’t as big as it became through Martin Luther King and all the work of these incredible activists. 

If you think about it, it’s really not that long since people were in the closet about gay rights. It’s been extraordinary. I think that it’s accelerating in the West. I think that things are changing radically, and some things – many things – for the good. Other things I think will be challenging for people because now we have a whole new paradigm and it’s complex, as human beings are. There will be upsides and there will be downsides, and it won’t just be heaven on a stick. 

 

Because you’ve always embraced your LGBT audience, your music has been a safe place for many people who identify as such. What do you attribute to the loyalty of your gay fan base? 

You see, that’s a question you have to ask the people that you’re describing. I can’t answer for the gay community. I truly can’t. I just make music, and I have no idea who is going to listen to it. I’m just the person that I am. 

When I was given this label of “gender bender,” I really felt it was diminishing in a way. It was very simplistic. I wasn’t bending gender; I was making a statement in a kind of subtle way. I thought it was subtle, but to some people it might have seemed overt. I was saying, “Look, as a woman I can be equal to a man,” and in this partnership with the Eurythmics, where I was in a partnership with a man (Dave Stewart), the two of us felt so connected that my gender didn’t matter. In a funny sort of way, ultimately I was coming out to say, “Look, I’m not going to be what you think I am. I’m intelligent. I’m not a dancing doll just because I’m female and I’m singing. I’m not singing for your pleasurable entertainment. It’s not about that. It’s cerebral and it’s heartfelt and it’s intelligent.”

This is something I’ve been saying to a lot of my gay compadres: One day we’ll get rid of this word “gay,” because it’s irrelevant. Of course it’s terribly relevant when you are trying to create a campaign. During a human rights movement, it’s terribly important to have labels and to have platforms that are very identifiable, but ultimately we should just be fine with everybody no matter what our sexual orientation is. It’s nobody’s effing business. 

 

Our use of labels is evolving. So many people are resisting them or calling themselves “queer” because it’s a broader term. 

Even that – no. It’s diminishing. Broaden out. And it will come.  

 

As a longtime feminist, how do you feel about the way the term “feminist” has been reframed in contemporary culture? 

It’s a process. It continues to be reframed, and necessarily so, because people’s relationship to the word has been a bit ambivalent over the last few decades. According to who you speak to, they don’t sometimes quite know what to do with the word. I did one event in particular called (Barclays) Women of the Year and they select certain people for certain kinds of recognition, and I was given an award not so long ago. I was so touched to have this award. I felt like I’m with a certain kind of camaraderie here and we’re all together in this room – 400 women from all walks of life – and I said at the podium, “I’m proud to be a feminist; let’s everybody stand up.” Half of the room stayed seated. It was such a hard moment for me because I realized that some women, many women, still have issues with the word and almost distance themselves from it because they’re afraid it’s synonymous with hating men. 

 

Which is something you don’t believe to be true, right? 

Not at all. I think that what happened over the years, and quite rightly so, is that women had to be incredibly radical, stringent and strident about the voice of feminism. They had to do that, but I think that nowadays it’s a more subtle thing. But we need men to be onboard with us. That’s my view. Some women might disagree with me. I’m not saying I hold the key to the absolute truth – I’m not saying that at all – but I also feel very much that the LGBTQ movement and the women’s movement need to get together far more frequently because we’re coming from the same place of human rights and civil rights. 

 

So what do you make of someone like Beyoncé? She recently performed on the MTV Video Music Awards and proclaimed herself a “feminist” during her set. 

I would call that “feminist lite.” L-I-T-E. I’m sorry. It’s tokenistic to me. I mean, I think she’s a phenomenal artist – I just love her performances – but I’d like to sit down (with her). I think I’d like to sit down with quite a few artists and talk to them. I’d like to listen to them; I’d like to hear what they truly think. 

I see a lot of it as them taking the word hostage and using it to promote themselves, but I don’t think they necessarily represent wholeheartedly the depths of feminism – no, I don’t. I think for many it’s very convenient and it looks great and it looks radical, but I have some issues with it. I have issues with it. Of course I do. I think it’s a cheap shot. I think what they do with it is cheap and ... yeah. What can I tell you? Sex always sell. And there’s nothing wrong with sex selling, but it depends on your audience. If they’re 7-year-old kids, I have issues with it. 

 

For years, you’ve resisted the “celebrity” moniker. You don’t like to think of yourself as that. 

No, I don’t. Again, I feel quite diminished by it. Obviously, I’m sometimes given that moniker, but every time it happens I feel reduced by it. I cringe inside. 

 

When somebody sees you on the street and reacts to you in the way some people react to a “celebrity,” how does that make you feel then?

It depends on how it’s done. Sometimes people are so, so sweet and it’s so touching, and it’s very human because they approach me in a way where I don’t feel uncomfortable. It’s just a human exchange. Of course I try to just go in the street and be like everybody else. I’ve always done that. I don’t want to be singled out, but of course being a person in the public eye, from time to time, you will be. People will see the projection that they know you to be. In that sense, I’m who I am as a person and I’m also this projection for people, so I cannot be tough on people that recognize me because I’ve been doing this for years now. The only time when it becomes incredibly uncomfortable is when people are just a bit thoughtless and invade in such a way where they really don’t think. They kind of treat you like a species in a safari park, and really, it’s awful. It’s so terrible. 

 

Camera phones haven’t made things any better in that regard, have they?

I think it’s far worse when people are paid to steal your image. They pay money for that stolen image of you and you have no control over it – but they’re making money out of it! I mean, I haven’t played into that paparazzi thing – I’ve just tried to completely and utterly downplay it – but you can play it up if you want. You can have them following you 24/7 if you want that kind of life. Some people do. I mean, bizarrely, people seem to want it. I’ve never understood why. 

 

Is it true that you may never write again and that this may be your last album?

Who knows. I don’t know. I say this because I’m aware that I’m not a young person, but I’m so spirited in myself – it’s really strange. Just because I’m almost 60 now, it doesn’t mean that I’m less passionate or less intensely curious about the world around me. In fact, I’m even more curious about it in another kind of way.

There’s this youth culture that is really, really powerful and really, really strong, but what it does is it really discards people once they reach a certain age. I actually think that people are so powerful and interesting – women, especially – when they reach my age. We’ve got so much to say, but popular culture is so reductive that we just talk about whether we’ve got wrinkles, or whether we’ve put on weight or lost weight, or whether we’ve changed our hair style. I just find that so shallow. Because it’s a shallow place, it’s one of the reasons the music industry and the music scene is really not truly for me and never really has been.

 

Have you thought about the legacy you want to leave?

I can’t think about legacy. I guess if you go onto the Internet you can find many things that were created over all of these years, and I guess that is the legacy. It is the music that’s been made, the interviews, the video, the photo shoots, and there were so many creative things that happened and they’re there. I have no control over what people think about it. They may love it; they may hate it.

 

But your legacy is more than just music. You’re a humanitarian. It’s beyond just creating albums and making videos, right? You’re part of the bigger picture. 

Well, thank you; that makes me feel complete, because to feel like an intelligent, rounded person with integrity, I don’t think that you can just be an entertainer. I think there’s another side – to me, anyway – that needs to be satisfied, and that is through contribution. I do it because I feel so despondent about the world at times. I feel I must do something, otherwise I feel useless. I’m not going to ever save the world, but because I have resources, I can at least make a contribution.

Blue Moon Resort

Blue Moon Only Gay Resort In Vegas Closing

  • October 13, 2014 - 11:41pm

Breaking news has come to Gay Vegas that the Blue Moon Resort, Las Vegas' only gay resort, will be closing Wednesday October 15th.

Hours ago, Monday October 13th at approximately 5:30pm the Blue Moon Resorts Facebook page posted the following message from the owner John Hessling.

 

"It is with a heavy heart and great sadness that as of Wednesday October 15th, Blue Moon Resort will close it's doors for good.

It has been a long and wonderful 12 year run.

I've met some fantastic people along way and had many wonderfully supportive customers.

And for that I am eternally grateful.

Your happiness was truly my happiness.

Sadly due to circumstances beyond my control I have to close my doors.

At this point, I don't know what my future holds, but wherever I land, I look forward to having you all as part of it.

Thank you to the Las Vegas Community and thank you to the Bears of Las Vegas for all your support.

Sincerely, John Hessling

Blue Moon Resort"

As of yet no additional details have been confirmed but we will keep you up to date as more information is gathered.

Marriage equality in Nevada begins today!

  • October 9, 2014 - 5:46pm

Marriage equality in Nevada begins today!

That’s right. After several days of back and forth, the stay has been lifted on the landmark ruling, striking down our state's marriage ban.

Today, effective immediately, marriage equality is law in Nevada.

All across our state, same-sex couples will at long last share in the freedom to marry.

If you’re ready to legally marry the person you love, click here to find your local clerk’s office—and go get married, Nevada!

It’s hard to believe that 14 years ago, anti-gay forces pushed through a draconian constitutional amendment banning marriage for same-sex couples.

Those were dark times—but Nevadans didn’t give up. Supporters like you immediately went to work, talking with family and friends to make the case that in our state, freedom means freedom for everyone—and everyone should have the freedom to marry the person they love. And today shows us, it was all worth it.

Marriage equality will forever be the law in Nevada and we have you to thank for it. Ready to marry in Nevada today?

Just click here for more information—and be sure to call your clerk’s office in advance, as each office may begin issuing licenses at different times.

This is a day that none of us will soon forget.

Together, we’ve made history—and Nevada will never be the same. 

Ward Curtin Director, Freedom Nevada

Asheville, North Carolina

  • September 28, 2014 - 10:13pm

If you’ve been keeping up with the country’s most buzzed-about hipster destinations of late, you’ve probably heard Asheville mentioned in the mix, perhaps alongside cities like Austin, Brooklyn, and Portland, Ore. This relatively small mountain metropolis in western North Carolina has long been a creative-spirited, relatively progressive island in one of the nation’s more socially conservative regions. LGBT-owned businesses, top-notch art galleries and furniture studios, along with inviting Victorian and Arts and Crafts-style inns – and independently owned shops, music clubs, theaters and cafes – have thrived here for decades, but more recently, the Asheville has cultivated an urbane, artisan-driven food and drink scene that’s particularly impressive for a city with just around 85,000 residents.

With a fairly reasonable cost of living and a moderate climate, Asheville (exploreasheville.com) is becoming a popular place to relocate among not just hipsters but all sorts of professionals of all ages, many from larger and more crowded cities. Additionally, young college grads are moving in at a steady pace – something that seldom happened in Asheville before the city began to undergo a renaissance a couple of decades ago. This leafy, hilly community just a 2-hour drive from Charlotte, a 3.5-hour drive from Atlanta and a 4.5-hour drive from Nashville has become a top weekend destination, too, with a sizable gay following. 

Downtown Asheville rests like a saucer balanced precariously amid the slopes of forested hills and mountains. It's an impressively preserved city, with dozens of fine old buildings, many of them striking Art Deco beauties. The surrounding Blue Ridge Mountains account for much of the region's appeal – it's an hour's drive west to reach Great Smoky Mountains National Park. You can also navigate a stretch of the winding, scenic Blue Ridge Parkway, which passes right through the center of Asheville on its way north toward Virginia. Many other state parks and forests are within a short drive, and right in the city you can appreciate nature with a hike through the 10-acre Asheville Botanical Gardens or the 434-acre North Carolina Arboretum.

The downtown area is great for strolling – it's also quite hilly, though, so prepare to get some exercise. Be sure to stop by the Asheville Art Museum, which has a celebrated collection of contemporary American works, and if you're a fan of modern American literature, don’t miss the Thomas Wolfe Memorial, which includes a visitor center and the boarding house in which the author of You Can't Go Home Again grew up.

Almost every visitor to Asheville pays a visit to the Biltmore Estate (biltmore.com), one of America's few true castles. The 250-room mansion and resplendent grounds were commissioned by the phenomenally wealthy railroad tycoon George Vanderbilt and executed by Richard Morris Hunt in 1895. Touring the mansion’s grandiose, if rather solemn, interior can feel a bit overwhelming, especially on a sunny day, but the 8,000-acre property’s outdoor features are arguably its greatest draw - you could easily spend the day sauntering along the 2.5 miles of paths through the gorgeous manicured gardens, or along the many more rugged trails through dense woods and open meadows. Other highlights include the Biltmore Winery, the working dairy farm at Antler Hill Village, and the Outdoor Adventure Center, where you can book a wide range of activities, from river float trips to bike excursions. Right on the property, the luxurious, 213-room Inn on Biltmore Estate offers swank accommodations, and nearby Biltmore Village abounds with upscale shops and restaurants.

A little southwest of downtown and northeast of Biltmore Estate, you’ll find one of Asheville’s more recent developments, the rapidly evolving River Arts District (riverartsdistrict.com), which is home to both new buildings and converted industrial spaces now filled with art galleries and studios, as well as a handful of cool restaurants and nightspots. The neighborhood extends north along Lyman Street from across the river from French Broad River Park all the way to the I-240 bridge, with plenty of businesses on both sides of the railroad tracks, which bisect the neighborhood.

With its rapidly emerging culinary scene, Asheville has become a favorite foodie hub. Highlights are many, but here are a handful of notables. Chef-owned by a team who trained with famed Spanish elBulli chef Ferran Adrià, Cúrate (curatetapasbar.com) is one of the hottest spots in town, turning out authentic tapas with creative twists – consider the Catalan sausage bocadillo (baguette sandwich), or the tender skewered lamb marinated in Moroccan spices. The owners also operate the trendy and eclectic restaurant and cocktail lounge, Nightbell (thenightbell.com), just around the corner. Another top table is Rhubarb (rhubarbasheville.com), a sleekly swish bistro helmed by chef John Fleer and situated across from the Asheville Art Museum. Favorites from the contemporary Mediterranean menu include rabbit-leek rillettes, octopus a la plancha, and charmoula-grilled flat-iron steak. A snazzy spot specializing in locavore-minded cuisine, Table (tableasheville.com) has an intimate, insider vibe and serves tempting victuals like duck confit with carrots, fennel kraut and medjool dates in its handsome street-level dining room. Head upstairs to the bar, Imperial Life (imperialbarasheville.com), for lighter late-night snacking and old-school cocktails.

Set inside one of Asheville's landmark 1920s buildings, the Grove Arcade, you'll find a wonderful wine bar and tap room, Sante (santewinebar.com). On the other side of the arcade, Carmel's Restaurant and Bar (carmelsofasheville.com) specializes in contemporary seafood and American fare and has a handsome little dining room plus plenty of seating outside along the sidewalk. Next door, you can browse thousands of new and used tomes and sip bubbly at the whimsical Battery Park Book Exchange & Champagne Bar (batteryparkbookexchange.com).

Other good bets around downtown include Limones (limonesrestaurant.com) for mod California-Mexican fare (the weekend brunch is particularly popular); Chai Pani (chaipaniasheville.com), a purveyor of cheap and delicious Indian street food, such as kale pakoras, spicy lamb hash, and bhel puri, a traditional puffed-rice snack; and Wicked Weed (wickedweedbrewing.com), a rambling brewpub on two levels producing outstanding craft beer and great bar food too. 

In the hip River Arts District, stop by Wedge Brewing Company (wedgebrewing.com) not just to sample fine brews but also to nosh from the several excellent food carts – the rotation changes daily (El Kimchi, which appears Mondays and Saturdays, is a highlight, serving Korean-Mexican fusion fare). There’s also live music and, during the warmer months, an outdoor cinema. A bit south along bustling Depot Street, the Junction (thejunctionasheville.com) serves delectable Southern comfort fare (pan-seared peaches, sweet-tea-brined fried chicken), while airy and contemporary Blue Kudzu (bluekudzusake.com) is one of the nation’s premier sake breweries and also a source of outstanding Pan-Asian fare, such as crisped-pork-belly ramen and kimchi Rueben sandwiches.

A neighborhood very much on the rise and becoming increasingly popular with the LGBT set, West Asheville is a short hop from downtown and is home to a handful of inviting, laid-back eateries, including Biscuit Head (biscuitheads.com), where you can tuck into a plate of fluffy biscuits prepared in a variety of ways (sweet potato-coconut gravy, with fried green tomatoes and poached eggs); and Oyster House Brewing (oysterhousebeers.com), a fun little neighborhood spot that specializes in Southern pub fare.

Good spots for casual snacking include City Bakery Café (citybakery.net), an airy space with a few tables on the sidewalk and superb sandwiches; Dobrá Tea (dobrateanc.com), a Czech-inspired tearoom with tasty Middle Eastern food; and funky Izzy’s Coffee Den (izzyscoffeeden.com), which fits the bill for high-octane java, craft beer and simply hanging out and people-watching. French Broad Chocolate Lounge (frenchbroadchocolates.com) handcrafts exquisite truffles, caramels and bars of chocolate – you can also sip wine, beer and coffee in a cozy lounge space. One of the most venerable indie bookstores in the South, Malaprops Bookstore and Café (malaprops.com) has a large LGBT section and a nice little coffeehouse inside. And also very popular with the gay crowd, Edna’s of Asheville (ednasofasheville.com) is on the north side of the city and serves terrific coffee drinks, breakfast fare and sandwiches. 

Virtually all of Asheville’s nightspots, including many of the drink-centric restaurants described above, have a strong following with the LGBT crowd. There are also a few predominantly gay hangouts, the largest being the Grove House Entertainment Complex (thegrovehouse.com), a rambling building that contains Scandals dance club, the Boiler Room live-music venue, and Club Eleven on Grove for events and parties. Nearby Club Hairspray (clubhairspray.com) is beloved for its kitschy interior, entertaining drag (queen and king) shows and friendly vibe. Drawing a mostly male crowd, O’Henry’s (ohenrysofasheville.com) is a fun neighborhood hangout that’s particularly popular with bearish types and fans of leather – the bar has been going strong for more than 35 years and adjoins neighboring dance bar, the Underground. Downtown bar-hoppers might want to stop by Smokey’s After Dark (facebook.com/smokys.afterdark), a laid-back, no-attitude neighborhood spot that’s fun for shooting pool and meeting locals. And women-owned Tressa's (tressas.com) – with live jazz and blues, comedy, and dancing – has a loyal following in the LGBT community.

Asheville has several inviting, gay-friendly inns, from upscale historic mansions to cozy Arts and Crafts cottages. The city's most renowned accommodation is the Grove Park Inn Resort and Spa (groveparkinn.com), one of the nation's foremost historic hotels, which has been fully restored to its original 1913 Arts and Crafts design. You'll find one of the South's most impressive spas on the lower level, and restaurants and bars affording panoramic views of the city skyline and surrounding mountains. Among the dining options, don’t miss Edison, which serves tasty small-plates fare (goat-cheese flatbread, an awesome burger with bacon jam and American cheese) and terrific craft beers. Even if you don’t stay here, sitting in the grand lobby before the enormous fireplace, and looking out over the countryside from the terrace is a real treat.

Herb and rose gardens surround the 1889 shingle-style White Gate Inn & Cottage (whitegate.net), one of the city's gay-owned properties (commitment ceremonies are frequently held here). The romantic, antiques-filled rooms have Wi-Fi and flat-screen TVs with DVD and CD players – they're named for poets (Whitman, Wilde, Sandburg, etc.), and one cottage has a gas fireplace and full kitchen. Also gay-owned and a 10- to 15-minute drive north of downtown, the 1847 Reynolds Mansion B&B (thereynoldsmansion.com) has 13 beautiful rooms (many with gas or wood fireplaces), a seasonal pool and lavish three-course breakfasts included in the rates. Another stunner is the shingle-style Inn on Montford (innonmontford.com), which dates to 1900 and sits on beautifully landscaped grounds that include the largest Norway maple tree in North Carolina. Rooms contain a priceless mix of 18th- and 19th-century English and American pieces. 

Fans of larger chain properties should consider the contemporary Aloft (aloftashevilledowntown.com), which is right on Biltmore Avenue, steps from a number of great restaurants, bars and shops. With super-clean rooms and terrific service, the Hampton Inn Asheville-Tunnel Road (hamptoninn3.hilton.com) ranks among the best mid-priced chain options in the region. And with a convenient location near the Grove Arcade, the sleek Hotel Indigo Asheville (ihg.com) is another great choice, with crisp, attractive rooms – the penthouse suites on the upper stories have floor-to-ceiling windows and amazing views of the countryside. 

Weekend in Dallas

  • September 28, 2014 - 10:09pm

The ninth largest city in the country, and one of the nation’s most important centers of commerce and culture, Dallas (visitdallas.com/things-to-do/diverse-dallas/lgbt) carries a reputation as a powerful business center, a highly influential retail and restaurant hub, and a gay community with high visibility in just about every sphere of city life. It’s also home to a vibrant downtown arts district that’s grown considerably in both size and stature in recent years, and it offers some of the hottest gay nightclubbing in the country. 

In short, there’s plenty to see and do here – the challenge for weekend visitors is trying to pack everything into a relatively quick visit. Here’s one strategy for making it happen: 

 

Friday evening

On your first night in town, ease into the city’s friendly, relaxed pace by spending some time in Oak Lawn, the core of Dallas’s gay scene. Here you’ll find several fun fashion shops and boutiques as well as inviting bars and restaurants on or near the neighborhood’s main drag, Cedar Springs Road. At the intersection with Throckmorton Street, nicknamed “the Crossroads,” you’re in the heart of one of the most vibrant gay nightlife districts in the world.

Among dining highlights, you can go casual with a jalapeno-cheddar burger at Hunky’s (hunkys.com), a fun local fast-food restaurant in the heart of the action. Or opt for a more leisurely meal at trendy Dish (dish-dallas.com), with its sleek dining room and first-rate contemporary, globally inspired fare and well-crafted cocktails. Another vibrant spot, with strong margaritas and tasty Mexican fare, is Cyclone Anaya's (cycloneanaya.com), which turns out spicy carne asada and lobster enchiladas.

On your first evening in town, you might want to take it easy and stick to a couple of the more easygoing options in the neighborhood, such as Alexandre’s, which presents softly sophisticated jazz and cabaret shows; the Latin-inflected bar Havana; and Woody’s (dallaswoodys.com), a classic gay video bar that airs comedy clips on Friday nights.

 

Saturday

Kick the morning off with a big breakfast at the Original Market Diner (originalmarketdiner.com), which is something of a Dallas institution for filling, hearty omelets and breakfast burritos along with homemade cherry and chocolate–peanut butter pies – the people-watching at this ’50s-era drive-in-style greasy spoon is highly entertaining. 

Then head downtown to explore the Dallas Arts District (thedallasartsdistrict.org), which comprises 68 acres of often-striking performance halls and art museums – it’s the largest neighborhood of its kind in the country. On Saturday afternoons or evenings there’s typically always something interesting staged at the spectacular I.M. Pei-designed Morton H. Meyerson Symphony Center, home to the Dallas Symphony Orchestra; the Dallas City Performance Hall, where the acclaimed GLBT Turtle Creek Chorale often performs, as do dance troupes, musicians, and theater groups; and the AT&T Performing Arts Center, which is home to the strikingly modern Winspear Opera House and presents everything from Broadway tours to exceptional opera. 

On the visual arts side, check out the phenomenal Dallas Museum of Art, whose distinctive building, designed in 2007 by Edward Larrabee Barnes, houses more than 24,000 works spanning many centuries and cultures. The nearby Trammell & Margaret Crow Collection of Asian Art focuses on works from throughout China, Indian and Japan, and the neighboring Nasher Sculpture Center has impressive indoor galleries but is perhaps best regarded for its leafy, tree-shaded 2.5-acre sculpture garden, a wonderful place to stroll on a sunny afternoon. 

The Nasher has a popular Wolfgang Puck Café, and the Dallas Museum of Art’s DMA Café is also an appealing lunch spot. But the coolest lunching in the Arts District these days is at the collection of food trucks assembled beside the lush green lawns of Klyde Warren Park, a 5.2-acre swath of greenery opened in 2012 atop the Woodall Rodgers Freeway – you’ll find everything from gourmet ice cream sandwiches at Coolhaus to Cajun-inspired oyster po’boys and gumbo at The Lab.

It’s a short drive or 20-minute walk to one other must-see downtown landmark, the West End Historic District. Here you’ll find Dealey Plaza, where President John F. Kennedy was assassinated on Nov. 22, 1963. At the northeast corner of the plaza, stop by the infamous Texas School Book Depository, now home to the poignant and fascinating Sixth Floor Museum, which preserves the space where Lee Harvey Oswald fired on the president. 

 

Saturday evening

As the sun descends on the Big D, there’s a choice place to take in the views: the Jetsons-esque, 561-foot Reunion Tower, which was built in 1979 but last year added an awesome new Ge-O Deck observation platform, with a high-definition zoom cameras and impressive telescopes that you can use to zero in on local landmarks. You can eat dinner up here, too, enjoying the same snazzy views from Five-Sixty by Wolfgang Puck (wolfgangpuck.com). Or, if you’re catching a performance later, head back to the Arts District, where nearby dinner options of note include Stephan Pyles (stephanpylesrestaurant.com), the eminent, eponymous restaurant of the city’s openly gay celeb chef and cookbook author (be sure the check out the ceviche bar). Tei-An Soba House (tei-an.com), which serves fine sushi and creative Japanese fare, and Jorge’s Tex-Mex (tacosgarcia.com), are other great bets in the area.

Later in the evening, return to Oak Lawn’s Crossroads neighborhood for a proper night on the town. Several fun establishments here cater to a colorful mix of revelers, including J.R.'s (jrsdallas.com), a festive video bar that draws the stand-and-model set; Sue Ellen's (sueellensdallas.com), a swanky women's dance club with live music; Station 4 (station4dallas.com), a cavernous dance club that’s home to the campy Rose Room cabaret, a must for fans of drag shows; and the Mining Company (tmcdallas.com), a somewhat cruise-y  place known for its hunky dancers. Across the street, the Round-Up Saloon (roundupsaloon.com) caters to country-western fans and has some of the best line-dancing you'll ever see. 

A short drive up the road, fans of strippers make a b-line to The Brick (brickdallas.com), while Kaliente (kaliente.cc) tends to draw a friendly Latino crowd.  Keep going north to find a few more gay party spots – leather-and-Levi’s dudes enjoy the Dallas Eagle (dallaseagle.com), which has a great on-site boutique selling leather and gear, while the quirky neighborhood joint the Tin Room (tinroomdallas.com) is a welcoming spot for admiring dancers and chatting with fellow patrons. If you’re still looking to admire hot go-go boys, drive over to the small cluster of gay bars on North Fitzhugh Avenue, including the sassy and fun BJ’s NXS (bjsnxs.com) and the more intimate lounge Zippers. 

 

Sunday

If you made it out last night to even half of the clubs mentioned in this article, pat yourself on the back and sleep in – then treat yourself to a nice big brunch. In Oak Lawn, aforementioned Dish restaurant is well-regarded for its campy drag brunch, while art deco-style Lucky’s Café (luckysdallas.com) earns kudos for Belgian waffles, huevos rancheros and other short-order specialties. Another good bet is gay-owned Komali, which serves delicious contemporary Mexican cuisine (the same chef here also operates neighboring Salum, which is well-regarded for seasonally driven American fare). 

After yesterday’s decidedly downtown focus, Sunday is a nice time to see the city’s greener pastures. If you’re seeking a more naturally scenic setting to tan your hide than the pool at your hotel, head to White Rock Lake, a 1,000-acre reservoir that’s encircled by a 9.3-mile jogging and biking trail. A 20-minute drive east of Oak Lawn, the lake is also home to the stunning Dallas Arboretum and Botanical Gardens, which contains 66 acres of fragrant and colorful floral displays and an art- and antiques-filled Spanish Colonial-style mansion. 

Another fine way to experience the outdoors is by setting out along the lushly landscaped Katy Trail, a 3.5-mile multi-use trail that passes through Oak Lawn and Uptown along a disused rail track. A perfect stop along the way for refreshments is the Katy Trail Ice House (katyicehouse.com), which has picnic tables under a grove of trees (there’s a huge beer selection plus delicious burgers and barbecue).

 

Sunday evening

One Dallas neighborhood that continues to develop cachet among everybody from hipsters to gay scenesters is Oak Cliff, a historic and formerly downcast residential neighborhood a few miles southwest of downtown that’s home to a clutch of inviting boutiques, design shops, bars, and restaurants. Late on Sunday, hit the blocks around Bishop Avenue and Seventh Street, an area known as the Bishop Arts District, stopping by Emporium Pies (home of the decadent Cloud Nine three-layer caramel, butterscotch, and brown sugar pie), Dude Sweet Chocolate artisanal chocolatier, and Bishop Street Market gift and housewares shop. 

Then settle in for dinner at one of the neighborhood’s inviting restaurants, such as gay-owned Hattie’s (hatties.com), a homey yet romantic spot specializing in Lowcountry-inspired Southern fare, or Boulevardier (dallasboulevardier.com), a delightful French wine bar and bistro. Wind down the evening with a drink or two in Oak Cliff’s unabashedly cute neighborhood gay lounge, Barbara’s Pavilion (barbaraspavillion.com), which is known for karaoke on Sunday nights. 

 

Where to stay in Dallas

Dallas has seen an influx of trendy, upscale hotels over the past decade, with many of them going up downtown or in nearby hip neighborhoods. That said, the longtime favorite address of those wishing to be steps from Oak Lawn bar-hopping is the Warwick Melrose (warwickhotels.com/dallas), a grand 1924 hotel with smartly updated rooms and an inviting, old-world bar, The Library. Also within easy walking distance of the city’s many gay bars, the intimate Daisy Polk Inn (www.daisypolkinn.com) is named for the opera star who once owned it and contains six romantic, antiques-filled rooms with hardwood floors and top-quality linens (an extensive full breakfast is included in the quite reasonable rates).

Just a short drive from Oak Lawn, the Hilton Anatole (hiltonanatolehotel.com) has spacious, stylish, art-filled rooms and oodles of amenities. Take advantage of the full-service spa, extensive fitness center and several restaurants, including one of the best venues for steak and seafood in the city, SER, which affords spectacular skyline views from its 27th-floor perch. 

Downtown’s Omni Dallas (omnihotels.com) is another larger property, this one LEED-certified and close to several key attractions – it’s especially known for its heated infinity pool with dazzling views of the downtown skyline. Far more intimate is downtown’s Hotel Joule (thejouledallas.com), which also has a gorgeous infinity pool angled high above the city, plus gorgeous, sleek rooms with a design by vaunted style-maker Adam Tihany.

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